Belonging Experience Essay

Abraham Maslow, the inventor of the hierarchy of basic human needs, describes belonging as a social and physiological need. It is the third need, after physical needs, food and shelter, and the need of security and safety. Belonging is the first of the psychological needs and is crucial to a person living a satisfied life.
My experience of belonging has been sheltered somewhat. Growing up in rural communities with two parents who homeschooled me, my dad having a secure job and my mom staying at home, I have not had the common experiences of neglect and dysfunction. In middle school my family moved twice in the course of thirteen months. This was extremely uncomfortable to me because my need of belonging was interrupted. As I moved to a new community I had to create completely new friendships. This was a valuable learning experience. Because of these moves, my ideas of belonging have shifted. I used to think that my friends were very special and they are, but I thought they were special exclusively, that there was no one else in the world like them, kind and considerate Christians. In my experiences traveling around the United States and to Malaysia and Singapore, I have found wonderful Bible-believing brothers and sisters. Because of the work of Christ, followers of Jesus have belonging with God himself as a Friend …show more content…
One day, the circus members went swimming together. Will was left on the beach seemingly ignored by the others. He calls out, but no one answers. Will starts to cross the pond, falls in, and realizes he can swim. All of his friends surround and congratulate him. Later he creates a show for the circus where he jumps from fifty feet in a pool. This inspires other children with disabilities and encourages their parents. The Showman played a crucial role in gently caring for Will, and mentoring him, but also giving him space and making him learn new skills such as the