Being The Oldest Sibling: Personal Narrative

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Being the oldest is not really easy. I come from a family of four in which I am the oldest, my sister is almost 6 years younger than me. It was never my choice to be the oldest sibling, it just happened. There are many responsibilities and high expectations that come with being the older sibling. There are many pros and cons when you are the older sibling.
My life changed dramatically when my sister was born. It all started on a clear spring day. My mother was at the hospital because today was the expected delivery day. Everyone was very excited about my new sibling that was about to be born. I was sitting next to my grandparents that day because I was not allowed inside the room until they were finished with the operation. I could remember,

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