Every so often it’s common to hear people talk about the qualities of the potential soulmate they want to be with. They say all the beautiful traits and quite honestly it is fair to wish for the best. What isn’t right however is failing to understand or accept that as human beings we are all susceptible to frailties? The understanding of this enables us to hold and treat others selflessly – the singular factor that destroys not only individuals but the essence of their existence relative to their environment is failing to observe this? Ego is poison to marriages! Not just in marriages but to any relationship. Being selfless is a definite factor to be practised, adored and inculcated in relationships. I do understand being selfless can easily
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It is not a stand-alone trait; its survival actually depends on the behaviour of the other party. So, one can see ego as a seed which depends on another’s actions/behaviour to feed in order to survive? Except this happens its survival is minimal. Hence, ego can inversely be fed by actions or behaviours that are directly opposite to those egoistic-serving behaviours or actions in order to achieve its minimal survival. Your refusal to be used and abused by egoistic persons does limit the potency of their vicious ego but equally frees you from their despotic …show more content…
Mary became distant, she stopped doing his laundry, she stopped cooking, and instead got ready meals for herself and their daughters. Ted was unfazed by these developments in fact it drove him to seek solace outside. He spent even more time with his mates while Mary chatted to her friends and neighbours ridiculing her husband and telling whoever cared to give her an ear that her husband was a no-good human being who can’t spend time with her. She insinuated that he may be gay? She said many unpleasant things because she was angry. She was sad, lonely, depressed and insecure. She hated herself but hated her husband much more for how she felt. It was all his
It is not a stand-alone trait; its survival actually depends on the behaviour of the other party. So, one can see ego as a seed which depends on another’s actions/behaviour to feed in order to survive? Except this happens its survival is minimal. Hence, ego can inversely be fed by actions or behaviours that are directly opposite to those egoistic-serving behaviours or actions in order to achieve its minimal survival. Your refusal to be used and abused by egoistic persons does limit the potency of their vicious ego but equally frees you from their despotic …show more content…
Mary became distant, she stopped doing his laundry, she stopped cooking, and instead got ready meals for herself and their daughters. Ted was unfazed by these developments in fact it drove him to seek solace outside. He spent even more time with his mates while Mary chatted to her friends and neighbours ridiculing her husband and telling whoever cared to give her an ear that her husband was a no-good human being who can’t spend time with her. She insinuated that he may be gay? She said many unpleasant things because she was angry. She was sad, lonely, depressed and insecure. She hated herself but hated her husband much more for how she felt. It was all his