Being An Outsider

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It's the Outside and the Inside

Have you ever found yourself on both. The inside and the outside? If you have than you are or have been exactly in my situation right now. There are many differences between being an outsider and an insider. If you are an outsider you may feel like you don't belong and you are not good enough to be on the inside. Then if you're on the inside you might think you are all this in a bag of chips, and that you could never be seen with an outsider. It is really the most meaningless thing ever. We are all human and we are the same, being on the outside or inside shouldn't matter.
When I am at home in Canada, there is no question if I am on the inside or outside. I am definitely on the
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When I first got here, I was on the inside, because of the person that was my first friend. Then, I just felt really uncomfortable, So then I was on the outside. After a while I got bored with the outside, because there is never anything going on. Then I was back on the inside. So I guess I have felt what the Greasers and the Socs have felt. Now I am in both the inside and the outside, because I can not seem to choose. Months ago on a saturday it was my friend's birthday, and I went on my phone, and saw all these photos and videos of my friends hanging out at the BX for one friends birthday. I was upset and confused. Did they not want me there, or did they just forget about me? I felt like an outsider then. After awhile i got over it, and was back on the inside. Being on the outside is really not anything that different from being on the inside. You might left out, but it just depends on how sensitive you are. I like the outside, because it is nice and calm, and there is not much Drama, but it can be dull because there is nothing going on. Then on the other side, the inside can be way too much, because there can be so much drama, and I can get into some trouble. Everyone on the inside and the outside are like family to me. I feel like I am the only person who is on both the inside and the outside. Is it alright to be on both, or do I need choose one or the

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