Being A Military Kid Analysis

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I have been a military kid as long as I can remember, there has always been a bright and dark side to it though. There are a lot of positives like the fact that we get to see a whole bunch of new places that people dream of going to. Even though there are a lot of positives there are a lot of negatives as well. One of the worst things is the act that you parents can get deployed which means that they will be gone for either a long or short period of time.

And being a military kid can mean moving to a different place and when ever this happens you are leaving you friends and even sometimes family, even though this has never happened to me i can’t imagine how hard it is on them. There are a lot of negatives but those only matter when they happen.

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