Becoming An Outsider

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As a child I always had trouble fitting in. I was never the popular girl due to the fact that I’m really quiet. My classmates would always refer to me as the whitest black girl they knew due to the fact that I was and still am a very quiet person, I didn’t speak slang as often as they did, I didn’t dress like them in and going into high school I was never one for parties, drugs and alcohol. I felt isolated within my own community. So most of most of my adolescence and teenager years have been spent with me being an outsider. Most of my time was spent in my house reading books about different worlds and characters so brave to do the things I wish I could have done to help me escape from the world I leaved in. I had no real friends I had been

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