The lyrics ‘He took a lover on a faraway beach, While you arranged flowers and chose color schemes’, is very similar to what happened between Bechdel’s parents. During a vacation Bechdel took with her father and brothers, her father had an affair with their babysitter, Roy. Bechdel’s mother was left alone at the house to work. The next part of the song is where the two stories don’t match up quite as well. In the song, the mother is attending a wedding when the bride breaks a vase that the mother had placed there, thinking it would spend the years resting perfectly on the shelf. This is the last straw, and she drowns herself in the ocean. Bechdel also believes that her father killed himself for what he might have thought was the last straw - Alison coming out as a lesbian and finding out about his affairs with younger
The lyrics ‘He took a lover on a faraway beach, While you arranged flowers and chose color schemes’, is very similar to what happened between Bechdel’s parents. During a vacation Bechdel took with her father and brothers, her father had an affair with their babysitter, Roy. Bechdel’s mother was left alone at the house to work. The next part of the song is where the two stories don’t match up quite as well. In the song, the mother is attending a wedding when the bride breaks a vase that the mother had placed there, thinking it would spend the years resting perfectly on the shelf. This is the last straw, and she drowns herself in the ocean. Bechdel also believes that her father killed himself for what he might have thought was the last straw - Alison coming out as a lesbian and finding out about his affairs with younger