I hypothesized that men aren’t brought up on the issue of domestic violence and battery is because they would experience it far less than women. There is also the stigma of being a man in that he can never express his true feelings or experiences, and that it makes him a man to simply bottle them up and never discuss them, thinking it that would represent him as being strong to never let anything affect him. During my research, I was proven right about my prediction, as many instances of woman on man abuse are mocked and joked about, such as in comic strip newspapers and satirical articles, which I know would be called egregious if a woman was a victim in the exact same setting. There is a historical record of men being ridiculed for “letting” their wives beat them; in 18th century France, a battered husband was forced to wear an embarrassing outfit and ride backwards around his village on a donkey (Steinmetz 499). I also found that the reason researchers and people in charge of these types of studies do not investigate husband abuse is because of the general consensus that it was only a rare occurrence. Through police reports filed for domestic violence, it was found that 7 percent of wives and 0.6 percent of males would be victims of severe physical abuse by their spouse (Steinmetz 501). A survey of husbands concluded that the stigma I recognized of a man “being a man” factored into whether a man would file a report on his wife or even confide in someone outside the relationship. Other reasons are based on institutionalized stereotypes, such as women expecting to be more verbal and men, and men more prone to use physical force to assert their dominance. This goes hand in hand of men generally being physically
I hypothesized that men aren’t brought up on the issue of domestic violence and battery is because they would experience it far less than women. There is also the stigma of being a man in that he can never express his true feelings or experiences, and that it makes him a man to simply bottle them up and never discuss them, thinking it that would represent him as being strong to never let anything affect him. During my research, I was proven right about my prediction, as many instances of woman on man abuse are mocked and joked about, such as in comic strip newspapers and satirical articles, which I know would be called egregious if a woman was a victim in the exact same setting. There is a historical record of men being ridiculed for “letting” their wives beat them; in 18th century France, a battered husband was forced to wear an embarrassing outfit and ride backwards around his village on a donkey (Steinmetz 499). I also found that the reason researchers and people in charge of these types of studies do not investigate husband abuse is because of the general consensus that it was only a rare occurrence. Through police reports filed for domestic violence, it was found that 7 percent of wives and 0.6 percent of males would be victims of severe physical abuse by their spouse (Steinmetz 501). A survey of husbands concluded that the stigma I recognized of a man “being a man” factored into whether a man would file a report on his wife or even confide in someone outside the relationship. Other reasons are based on institutionalized stereotypes, such as women expecting to be more verbal and men, and men more prone to use physical force to assert their dominance. This goes hand in hand of men generally being physically