Social Behavior In Barbie Doll, Jabberwocky, By Lewis Carroll

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Social Behavior At every corner of the world, people can be viewed in many ways. They can be viewed by their physical appearance, or rather they can be viewed by their moral standards and opinions. Human behavior is a large benefactor in intercommunication of humans. This can most crucial in how we judge others and how they judge ourselves. Poems such as “Barbie Doll,” “Jabberwocky,” and “Against Love” show how emotions and perspective impact human behavior. How our society behaves can be directly proportional to how people see individuals as in “Barbie Doll”, or how “Jabberwocky” shows how the individual see others, and “Against Love” shows how individuals feel about others.
Other peoples’ perspective of individuals can affect how individuals’
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Written by Lewis Carroll, “Jabberwocky” tells of someone who is a nuisance to the people around them. It says how excessive annoyance can cause exclusion and expulsion from society. “Jabberwocky” tells of a warning to how to break emotional connections of the people closest in relationships. We value connections of trust and loyalty to build relationships between one another. However, when others are a nuisance, it changes how others interact with them. Someone can be caught in with someone who has “The jaws that bite” and “the claws that catch!”(Carroll 6). When engaged in conversation, one has to be careful of being overly consuming in the conversation. What can cause the greatest issues in conversation is one sided conversations. This creates problems when one is talking excessively and the other feels insignificant. People begin to feel locked into a conversation in which they do not want to be involved. This is seen as “cocky” and causes rifts in relationships. A Jabberwocky is someone who is seen as “uffish” which is someone who is arrogant but is also huffy (Carroll 13). The author uses this word choice to portray annoyance by someone else’s actions which causes him to have a poor view of the person. How we view others can affect how we behave as individuals by the way we treat those who are affecting us. We view Jabberwockies as annoying, therefore, we choose to not interact …show more content…
These poems tell how love can affect human behavior in powerful ways. Love is so powerful that it can make us make decisions that we normally would not make. Such decisions can result in broken friendships. Individuals take the love and it makes some blind to what we have going already. Our behavior begins to be directed only to that of who we love and it cuts off our friendships that we may have already. Humans are controlled by Cupids “pleasure which itself destroys.”(Philips, 3). We are bound by love’s “shackles” (Philips, 8). We have no power when love takes over and become “idols” (Philips, 10). Love affects our behavior in how we treat ourselves and treat

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