In this poem, the sick man wishes to have his “bald spot” covered (11), which says two things. First, the importance of appearance still lingers in the thoughts of a dying man because he cannot escape what has been impressed on him. Second, it argues that this training was so successful that he cannot even be who he is with his loved ones because his displeasing appearance and weakness should be hidden to prevent his feelings of shame. While he is close to his partner when he is “kissed [on the] temple” (1), there is a barrier between the men. They connect on a meaningful level, but the sick man is self-conscious of his appearance in death, which forms a rift. Physical standards do not only hurt the individual but can wound relationships
In this poem, the sick man wishes to have his “bald spot” covered (11), which says two things. First, the importance of appearance still lingers in the thoughts of a dying man because he cannot escape what has been impressed on him. Second, it argues that this training was so successful that he cannot even be who he is with his loved ones because his displeasing appearance and weakness should be hidden to prevent his feelings of shame. While he is close to his partner when he is “kissed [on the] temple” (1), there is a barrier between the men. They connect on a meaningful level, but the sick man is self-conscious of his appearance in death, which forms a rift. Physical standards do not only hurt the individual but can wound relationships