It is more important to teach girls to embrace the term “bossy” and to be less worried about the negative opinions of others.
There is a risk in sending the message that some of the characteristics associated with bossiness, such as speaking up and taking charge are inappropriate characteristics for females. The problem with “bossy” isn't the word, or even the behavior, but how society accepts the word as unfavorable. Raising awareness around the power of words and how they are used to both motivate, and discourage women can be done without the ban of a word. According to an article found online, “The lesson to children, and to the parents and teachers who raise and nurture them, should be that there is pride in being opinionated, motivated and motivating-that is, bossy” (Sheryl Sandberg wrong on 'bossy'