Attachment Styles In Relationships

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I found this article study interesting when discussing the different attachment styles and how they can relate to person’s potential relationship. I was not particularly shocked when reading about secure attachment and how trust and longevity is usually associated with relationships that have that. It was also not surprising that anxious attachment styles tend to have more issues involving trust than the other two styles. I think that if couples, from the beginning, can establish what type of attachment style they follow, this can save a lot of people heartache and time. I was in a relationship that recently failed and if I would have truly realized that our attachment styles were different, me being secure and him being anxious, I would have

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