My child is more attached to me than her dad. She prefer me to hold her and take care of her than her dad. In a report from the examiner suggested that I should let Jayleen and her dad spend more time so she can get used to him also. At 3 month, Jayleen was cautious and shy in more cases when she was around new people or strange situations. At 8 month, Jayleen shows a preference for me over others, especially in distressed moments. As her caregiver, we had a strong bond. Jayleen is has secure attachment. Parental behavior that may have affected attachment security is that as her mother I would not allow her to cry for a long time. I would always give her want she wanted because it was my first child, so I did not know what is right or wrong.
