Honesty Assessment Of Where I Am At Mentally And Emotionally?

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Let us ask ourselves a question. What is my honest assessment of where I am at mentally and emotionally? Can you honestly say that you feel powerless over your situation? It sucks when you may want something so bad, yet can’t obtain it no matter how hard you may try. The fact of the matter, is the harder you try, the more it slips away from you, the harder you pull the more distant it becomes. How do I regain proper prospective again? How do I regain some control over my emotions and thoughts again? Well, we have already established some very certain physical aspects of what may be happening with you and need to understand some things in life just need to run their course. I believe what we can be best at sometimes is prolonging the …show more content…
If you want to regain control again in your life, then I believe you must start with things you actually can control, namely yourself. Admitting you have no control over another person what they may choose to do or not do is the first step to gaining control over your outlook on life and the improvement of your emotional and mental condition. I know I keep repeating this theme, however it is that vital to your transition to freedom. People always say Eric; why do you keep repeating the same thing you just told me yesterday? Because it is that important, something that vital is worth saying again and …show more content…
And to be honest with you human beings once acquiring what they can’t have are just going to let you go again. No matter how bad we may desire something it may be wise to not show all of your cards at once. All I am saying is that if you desire your lover back, make yourself more desirable and not a blithering mess, just to put it simply, because let me tell you, been there done that. There are no guarantees in life and I don’t offer you any, however whether or not your ex-lover and you reunite you’ll be much better off either way.
There is no worse feeling than an out of control life or a wayward emotional and mental state. So what I am really talking about is how do I feel good about myself again, about who I am and what my life is about. Did I let this person define me and who I am? Do you feel like your life cannot go on without her and your identity as a person went with it? If the answer is yes, then I can relate to your situation, but the good news is we also have some answers for you as

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