Article Review: The Undercover Parent By Coben Harlan

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In the article “The undercover Parent” (2008) written by Coben Harlan. He states that putting spy gear on the computers is okay. I disagree with coben.

In Cobens article he says “Some will say that it is better just to use parental blocks that deny access to risky sites.” (Par7) This backs up my disagreement because you would be giving your child their space.

Another part of Cobens article, he says “Some will say that you should trust your child .” (Par7) This supports with my disagreement because if you don't trust your kid then why give them something like this in the first place.

My friend was on a internet site and was getting cyberbullied, because he got himself to involved. The spry wear would not have worked because he would have

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