3. Hug after all the arguments
I used to work as an event organizer: church and school events; and I thought organizing my own wedding will be that easy. I was wrong. Preparing my big day is more stressful than I ever thought. Both Andrew and I feel the tensions from preparing the upcoming wedding. In this situation, our emotions become like a roller coaster. We have arguments very often, even for a small thing. It is difficult not to argue with him, and I know that trying to avoid arguments is impossible. But, I 'm grateful for my fiance. Andrew says 'I love you ' to me like endless everyday. Even after the argument, Andrew tells me again and again how he loves me. I do the same to him, and we hug each others. Hearing that magic words and …show more content…
Yes you are loved! Yes you are wanted! Yes you will be one with him! But you just got engaged, and not married yet. Don 't let your heart and mind being manipulated by 'Oh, I 'm almost married! ' Then the idea of being in marriage kick on. However, being engaged is not being married. Staying pure is staying pure. Wait until the wedding night for sex. No compromise!
5. Planning the marriage not the wedding
I have been so excited preparing my wedding day. So many things are listed on my to do list, and it overwhelms me. I set my weekly planner to do wedding DIY: from Invitation letters, flowers, muffin toppers, and else. I want this day becomes very special for Andrew and myself! I have to make sure nothing get wrong on my wedding day. Oh dear, I forgot a thing which is more important than the wedding itself: the marriage.
Once the wedding day has finished, I will enter my new life in marriage for the rest of my life. How could I concern more to 'one day event ' than 'something that last forever '? So, I stopped being busy making a list for the wedding. I discussed with Andrew about the marriage we are going to build, and wee are going to meet married couples from the church to share and learn from …show more content…
It was snowing, Andrew came to visit me and asked me to have a walk outside. It was a great idea, and we started talking about taking some nice pictures for my blog. I told him "I will dress nice for the pictures!" Yes I was expecting him to take some pictures of me. I put makeup on, wear a pretty coat, jeans, and nice boots. Then we went out. Andrew started to get busy with his camera. He took pictures of flowers, birds, and other things, but not even a single shoot of me. I was standing crossly while he took pictures of daffodils. I got very upset, and I left him. He noticed that I was upset, and asked what 's wrong. I ignored him. I know that was silly, but sometimes, it is just difficult for me to tell Andrew what I want. I expect him to know what I want, without even telling him what I want. Wait...
I used to work as an event organizer: church and school events; and I thought organizing my own wedding will be that easy. I was wrong. Preparing my big day is more stressful than I ever thought. Both Andrew and I feel the tensions from preparing the upcoming wedding. In this situation, our emotions become like a roller coaster. We have arguments very often, even for a small thing. It is difficult not to argue with him, and I know that trying to avoid arguments is impossible. But, I 'm grateful for my fiance. Andrew says 'I love you ' to me like endless everyday. Even after the argument, Andrew tells me again and again how he loves me. I do the same to him, and we hug each others. Hearing that magic words and …show more content…
Yes you are loved! Yes you are wanted! Yes you will be one with him! But you just got engaged, and not married yet. Don 't let your heart and mind being manipulated by 'Oh, I 'm almost married! ' Then the idea of being in marriage kick on. However, being engaged is not being married. Staying pure is staying pure. Wait until the wedding night for sex. No compromise!
5. Planning the marriage not the wedding
I have been so excited preparing my wedding day. So many things are listed on my to do list, and it overwhelms me. I set my weekly planner to do wedding DIY: from Invitation letters, flowers, muffin toppers, and else. I want this day becomes very special for Andrew and myself! I have to make sure nothing get wrong on my wedding day. Oh dear, I forgot a thing which is more important than the wedding itself: the marriage.
Once the wedding day has finished, I will enter my new life in marriage for the rest of my life. How could I concern more to 'one day event ' than 'something that last forever '? So, I stopped being busy making a list for the wedding. I discussed with Andrew about the marriage we are going to build, and wee are going to meet married couples from the church to share and learn from …show more content…
It was snowing, Andrew came to visit me and asked me to have a walk outside. It was a great idea, and we started talking about taking some nice pictures for my blog. I told him "I will dress nice for the pictures!" Yes I was expecting him to take some pictures of me. I put makeup on, wear a pretty coat, jeans, and nice boots. Then we went out. Andrew started to get busy with his camera. He took pictures of flowers, birds, and other things, but not even a single shoot of me. I was standing crossly while he took pictures of daffodils. I got very upset, and I left him. He noticed that I was upset, and asked what 's wrong. I ignored him. I know that was silly, but sometimes, it is just difficult for me to tell Andrew what I want. I expect him to know what I want, without even telling him what I want. Wait...