Argument Analysis: The Ted Talk

In the Ted Talk video, the speaker procured to discuss about the vulnerability we live in. The speaker opened her discussion with the topic about connection and what makes connection to be here. One of the things the speaker said was " when you ask people about the love they talk about heartbreak, when you ask about belonging they'll tell the experience of being excluded, and when you ask about the connection they say about being disconnected". People tend to not have the confidence to connect to others; therefore, it's the reflection to people's vulnerability. People don’t demonstrate the willingness; for fear to be rejected and to be able to connect with others. Another thing the speaker said was "shame is understood as fear disconnection". She was saying how people see themselves not worthy for connection, fearing to not be good enough. The society has put themselves in a barrier and negatively talk themselves to be not worthy enough or see themselves not being enough. The speaker in the video also mentioned that she had found interesting that the sense of worthiness was …show more content…
One of the reasons is numbing; therefore; society has numb everything as well as feelings. Society now days has a numb vulnerability with addictions, obesity, and others. The reason for some of those addictions as for credit cards, alcohol and obesity, the speaker revealed that society wanted to dichotomized the uncertain to certain. As well as having the control and the outcome of something. Also the society is coping vulnerability with perfection. Lastly she said the pretending, as to pretend to not having a huge impact on other people was another reason of endured vulnerability. She has given us sagacious knowledge: we need to let ourselves be seen, to love with our whole hearts with no guarantee,practicing gratitude would lean into joy and to believe we are