Are Smartphones Ruining Relationships

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Today’s most common worry is that smartphone ruin today's relationships. Or at least to the writer of the article “How Your Smartphone is Ruining Your Relationship” Mandy Oaklander believes so. Do i believe smartphones ruins today's relationships? No I do not. I believe smartphones aren't the ones ruining relationships people behind phones do. Phones are almost innocent humans behind the phones are the ones who official ruin their relationship between their loved ones. But some think otherwise. Some people believe that smartphones are the ones who split up relationship. Is that the truth or an excuse?

Electronics could be the ones who break up relationships. The attention could come off the partner onto the device causing a breakup. In this

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