Anxious/Ambivalent Attachment Theory Analysis

When it came to important matters, such as sexuality, dating, violence in relationships, and finances, both of my parents took on the role of talking to us equally. Both of my parents always let my brother and I know that they would love us no matter what sexual orientation, a “preference for sexual parents of the same sex, the opposite sex, both sexes, or neither sex,” we were (Benokraitis, 2015). This made my brother and I feel very comfortable because we knew that we could talk to our parents about sexuality if we ever needed to. With that said, however, I do not remember a specific time where our parents gave us the “sex talk,” and even though we never received that talk from them we did receive it in other places like health class. One conversation that I do remember having with my Mom was on the topic of Intimate Partner Violence, which can be described as “abuse between two people in a close relationship” (Benokraitis, 2015). …show more content…
Anxious/Ambivalent Attachment Style is described as when a mother is inconsistent with their infant- sometimes showing affection and sometimes distant. I say that I display this type of attachment style based on the signs of outcomes where “anxious/ambivalent adults tend to fall in love easily and wanted a commitment almost immediately” (Benokraitis, 2015). This is an accurate description of me as well as the description that those raised in an anxious/ambivalent attachment style “want to merge completely with another person, and this desire often scares people away” (Benokraitis, 2015). I did not believe that the way in which I act when it comes to a relationship could be because of how I was raised, but seeing the descriptions I can see how this is