Chapter 3: Searching for the Ideal Match for Empaths
An empath is a people pleaser, natural nurturer, friend, counselor, and healer. He/she is soft spoken, gentle, and caring. Moreover, an empath can give unselfishly, even if he/she suffers from it. If you are an empath, you are hypersensitive and observant to the desires, needs, and wants of other people. You try to use mediation to avoid conflict.
Yet, aside from these behaviors, empaths also have low self-esteem. Thus, they are prone to isolation, codependency, depression, and isolation. They avoid conflict and are hypersensitive to aggression. Because of their natural ability to heal others, they radiate towards people who are prone to aggression and anger. They become passive because they are soft spoken. People who are more aggressive can dominate them easily.
This means that as an empath, people can abuse and manipulate …show more content…
He/she is most comfortable with rational thinking. This person can keep his/her cool even in intense arguments. Yet, he/she struggle with emotions, and is slow to engage in sensual, light-hearted, or playful talks.
Intellectuals also do not trust their gut feel. They can be more intuitive and sensual, yet they prefer to use their minds. For example, you, as an empath, need time to replenish your energy. You need to express this need to your intellectual partner so that he/she can find creative ways to balance your relationship. Expressing your need can keep your energy and mood high.
You can help your intellectual partner by breathing, exercising, and empathizing. In case you experience a mental gridlock, you must perform deep breathing exercises to release the bad energy. You can also take a walk, lift weights, or do activities to relax your mind. Moreover, you can respond with your heart and not just your mind when you and your partner try to work out an issue.
The Emotional
An empath is a people pleaser, natural nurturer, friend, counselor, and healer. He/she is soft spoken, gentle, and caring. Moreover, an empath can give unselfishly, even if he/she suffers from it. If you are an empath, you are hypersensitive and observant to the desires, needs, and wants of other people. You try to use mediation to avoid conflict.
Yet, aside from these behaviors, empaths also have low self-esteem. Thus, they are prone to isolation, codependency, depression, and isolation. They avoid conflict and are hypersensitive to aggression. Because of their natural ability to heal others, they radiate towards people who are prone to aggression and anger. They become passive because they are soft spoken. People who are more aggressive can dominate them easily.
This means that as an empath, people can abuse and manipulate …show more content…
He/she is most comfortable with rational thinking. This person can keep his/her cool even in intense arguments. Yet, he/she struggle with emotions, and is slow to engage in sensual, light-hearted, or playful talks.
Intellectuals also do not trust their gut feel. They can be more intuitive and sensual, yet they prefer to use their minds. For example, you, as an empath, need time to replenish your energy. You need to express this need to your intellectual partner so that he/she can find creative ways to balance your relationship. Expressing your need can keep your energy and mood high.
You can help your intellectual partner by breathing, exercising, and empathizing. In case you experience a mental gridlock, you must perform deep breathing exercises to release the bad energy. You can also take a walk, lift weights, or do activities to relax your mind. Moreover, you can respond with your heart and not just your mind when you and your partner try to work out an issue.
The Emotional