For example, His father did not appreciate him. Amir’s dad does not think that Amir is anything like him. Amir’s dad said to Rahim Khan, “If I hadn’t seen the doctor pull him out of my wife with my own eyes, I’d never believe he’s son” (Hosseini 23). The fact that Amir’s dad would not believe Amir is his child if he had not seen him come out of his wife’s womb illustrates how Amir is surviving in Kabul from his dad because Amir wants his dad to except him for who he is. Amir had to go through each day by pretending like someone he is not for his dad. Amir also use to lack attention from his dad. Amir’s dad does not pay attention to Amir when he has something important to say. Amir says, “Baba went on staring me down, and didn 't offer to read” (Hosseini 31).Amir’s dad didn’t want to read the story that Amir wrote which, demonstrates how he is surviving in Kabul from his dad because he wants his dad to connect with him. Instead, Amir’s dad failed to see the potential that Amir had to become a good writer. Amir is trying to be the son that his dad has always wanted but his dad was not giving him a chance. It mattered to Amir because he thinks family is a very important part of someone’s life. He is struggling to connect with his dad because his dad is not willing …show more content…
For example, Amir graduates from high school. Amir completes high school and is ready to go to college. He wants to major in writing and wants to write nonfiction novels. Amir says, “That summer of 1983, I graduated from high school at the age of twenty” (Hosseini 131). The fact that Amir graduated high school proves that he is thriving in America because even though he is the oldest senior, he didn 't give up, but kept doing his best. He has goals to achieve and believes that he would attain them. He also becomes more sociable. Amir He starts to talk to a girl named Soraya and builds up friendship with her. Amir says, “If Khanum Taheri was there, she’d offer me tea and a kolcha and we’ll chat about Kabul in the old days” (Hosseini 150). Amir is making friends, which proves that he is thriving in America because he have always been this shy boy. He is becoming more free to talk to people and he likes the girl so even though it’s hard, he still does. This matters to Amir because he is taking steps to becoming more of reliable person and have someone to talk to. In Kabul, Amir is shy and didn 't have many friends. In America, he is more comfortable talking to