Analysis Of The Dark Side Of Emotional Intelligence By Adam Grant

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I found the article The Dark Side of Emotional Intelligence by Adam Grant very validating as I’ve started to question the messages our society is bombarded with on a daily basis. Between what we read in the media and what our political leaders say, I wonder if using EI in a negative sense is more prevalent that anyone thinks. A few years ago I took it upon myself to look outside local and national media sources to try to get to the ‘truth’. I’m not even sure you can get the ‘truth’ anymore, since finding an unbiased media outlet seems obsolete. For instance, the hot topic of gun control. Varying on the media source, you’ll find either the pro’s or the con’s, and whether we need or don’t need to change our current laws. First let me say, my

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