I need to be supportive of the next man in my life. This can be as simple as my saying “I appreciate you” or “thank you”. Loyalty to a man is standing by him, so I will make sure that my future man knows that I have his back. He will know that if it is important to him, it is important to me. Men need sex. It is their way to connect with women. With women, we talk to connect. Men talk because they know they have to in order to get the sex they want. In the past I have expected my man to know what I would like. After reading this book, I realize I need to voice my wants and needs, because men do not catch subtle hints and implications. This applies to more than just sex. Do not hint at a gift you want. Tell him, “I’d really like to have this …show more content…
Play things set no rules or boundaries. In the past I have let men set the rules and just gone along with whatever they wanted. I am no longer the “whatever you want” girl. The marrying kind are ladies who have set rules and boundaries. I respect myself enough to demand respect from a man. I let men know up front that I have ground rules. On a first date, I only meet them in a public place. I let them know upfront that I will not rush into an intimate relationship. If they cannot handle that, then I have just saved myself time wasted on a man who does not want the same things I do. A lady should hold on to her “Cookie” until a man has earned it. It is recommended to wait at least 90 days before you give a man your Cookie. I have dated a lot of men only once, because I realized they were only after my cookie and nobody gets my cookie on a first date.
If a man really cares for you, loves you, he will show it. Mr. Harvey states that men have three Ps of Love. They are Profess, Provide, and Protect. I want a man who cares enough for me to “title” me. I want him to Profess me as his lady, his girlfriend, or his wife. I want him to talk about me to others with pride. Men want to feel needed. I want a man who wants to meet my needs and Provide for me, physically and emotionally. I want a man who will Protect me with everything he has. I want a man who will not allow others to disrespect me in any