But first you must know just right where to start. You don’t need money, nice clothing or amazing shoes. My speech will teach you just what to do.” Over the past few years, especially just this last year, I stayed in the comfort of my own sadness, wearing it around me like a fuzzy blanket- not willing to recognize how miserable it made me and how hard it made it for others to be around me. I stayed in this sad little comfort zone, believing full heartedly that I couldn’t be happy and I had to be miserable because I had been abused. As if real abuse victims can’t be happy, and if I was happy then that would invalidate my abuse. I was so comfortable with the label I had given myself as a victim and nothing more, I drove this victim complex into my mind and began to form my entire personality around
But first you must know just right where to start. You don’t need money, nice clothing or amazing shoes. My speech will teach you just what to do.” Over the past few years, especially just this last year, I stayed in the comfort of my own sadness, wearing it around me like a fuzzy blanket- not willing to recognize how miserable it made me and how hard it made it for others to be around me. I stayed in this sad little comfort zone, believing full heartedly that I couldn’t be happy and I had to be miserable because I had been abused. As if real abuse victims can’t be happy, and if I was happy then that would invalidate my abuse. I was so comfortable with the label I had given myself as a victim and nothing more, I drove this victim complex into my mind and began to form my entire personality around