Analysis Of Parent's Night By Nancy Garden

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In the short story, “Parent’s Night” by Nancy Garden, Karen, the main character, has to face the wrath of individuals because of one thing; her sexuality. These horrific comments dominate her brain and make her even more anxious to come out to her parents. Even though peers and comments intimidate Karen, she has enough control in her life to make suitable decisions for herself because she believes that she knows what is moral.

One of Karen’s life changing decisions is talking about her sexuality to her parents. In the environment Karen lives in, she is constantly reminded of modesty and respect. Therefore, her parents are not open about being different. During a conversation at dinner, the family discussion strays from the usual; instead,

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