According to Erikson, if a child successfully completes this stage, he or she will walk away with a confidence in the way they think and act. If the child does not complete this stage successfully, he or she will suffer from guilt and may question their own thoughts and actions. I believe I completed this stage successfully, falling under the Initiative side. The way my parents allowed me to create confidence in my way of thinking and acting was through allowing me to pretend play and never stopping me. Instead of asking me to stop, my parents constantly encouraged my pretend play, sometimes even joining me! From playing a pretend doctor, to playing a cashier at a grocery store, and to playing a pretend school teacher, I was never told my way of creating scenarios was wrong. My way of thinking and being creative was never stifled by anyone. This allowed me to fulfill this stage
According to Erikson, if a child successfully completes this stage, he or she will walk away with a confidence in the way they think and act. If the child does not complete this stage successfully, he or she will suffer from guilt and may question their own thoughts and actions. I believe I completed this stage successfully, falling under the Initiative side. The way my parents allowed me to create confidence in my way of thinking and acting was through allowing me to pretend play and never stopping me. Instead of asking me to stop, my parents constantly encouraged my pretend play, sometimes even joining me! From playing a pretend doctor, to playing a cashier at a grocery store, and to playing a pretend school teacher, I was never told my way of creating scenarios was wrong. My way of thinking and being creative was never stifled by anyone. This allowed me to fulfill this stage