In “Ready For Marriage Apocalypse?” Carol Costello explaines that culturals attitudes toward traditional marriage are drifting away as many Americans millennial questions whether marriage is for them. As many young Americans were raised in environments of credit debt, student loans and marriage separation. In that fact the millennial generation prioritizes in their careers and travel. Many of them strongly belief staying single becomes more socially acceptable. As myself who also fall in the category of the American millennials. It is true that marriage is in decline among young Americans due to many factors which caused changes in Americans millennials interests, but I strongly disagree with Carol Costello on her beliefs about “They don’t care what your generation thinks, they’ll get married if and when they want.”
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Although we finding ourselve a certain timeline where we would not wanted to be tight to a title of married but doesn’t mean we are not thinking of having a family. For example, I grew up in a tradtional asian family, marriage is very important before you live with someone. Although its changes through time. As I raised here majortiy of my life, my parent even think that living with your partner before marriage is a great step before you are legally tight a knot together. As my personal experience when i first date someone and move out, I start to know my partner personality more closer, and discovered flaws that I never known of if we didn’t lived together. Furthermore, its prepare each of us for married lifestyle. Though Americans melleinials has changed theire view in marriage, to emphasize with other millennial from Kent State I have no doubt "Marriage is about love. It's not about planning or timing, and that's what we're all kind of waiting for." (Costello 3) While Carol Costello in “Ready For Marriage Apocalypse?” rised the concerned about traditional marriage are drifting away among American millennial. Carol Costello perhaps correct in addressing the issue to young Americans, but she is totally mistaken that many young Americans like myself are underestimate the value of traditional marriage. Although we growth up in a generation that focus more on education and career over marriage. But that doesn’t conclude we don’t want to get married. For our generation we believed marriage depends more on the individual’s mindset rather than the age they get
Although we finding ourselve a certain timeline where we would not wanted to be tight to a title of married but doesn’t mean we are not thinking of having a family. For example, I grew up in a tradtional asian family, marriage is very important before you live with someone. Although its changes through time. As I raised here majortiy of my life, my parent even think that living with your partner before marriage is a great step before you are legally tight a knot together. As my personal experience when i first date someone and move out, I start to know my partner personality more closer, and discovered flaws that I never known of if we didn’t lived together. Furthermore, its prepare each of us for married lifestyle. Though Americans melleinials has changed theire view in marriage, to emphasize with other millennial from Kent State I have no doubt "Marriage is about love. It's not about planning or timing, and that's what we're all kind of waiting for." (Costello 3) While Carol Costello in “Ready For Marriage Apocalypse?” rised the concerned about traditional marriage are drifting away among American millennial. Carol Costello perhaps correct in addressing the issue to young Americans, but she is totally mistaken that many young Americans like myself are underestimate the value of traditional marriage. Although we growth up in a generation that focus more on education and career over marriage. But that doesn’t conclude we don’t want to get married. For our generation we believed marriage depends more on the individual’s mindset rather than the age they get