Du had asked to be invited to become a member of my family but my father wasn’t really serious about it, so he didn’t take it seriously, until he became a big time mafia member. As he became important it became very hard to invite him here because he was so busy and so one day he came to only pay his respects for the wedding celebration. Showing up to pay respects is a way of the Chinese, so I heard he came and left so I didn’t get to see him. As a result, I went to his side of town just to see him and they were having a big dinner. I was just 19 at the time. (Translation) Honestly, my first experience with code switching was kind of difficult because my mom was stubborn and whenever she spoke she always thought that she was saying the right thing. So, I had a hard time making her understand that she was being misunderstood because she was speaking “broken
Du had asked to be invited to become a member of my family but my father wasn’t really serious about it, so he didn’t take it seriously, until he became a big time mafia member. As he became important it became very hard to invite him here because he was so busy and so one day he came to only pay his respects for the wedding celebration. Showing up to pay respects is a way of the Chinese, so I heard he came and left so I didn’t get to see him. As a result, I went to his side of town just to see him and they were having a big dinner. I was just 19 at the time. (Translation) Honestly, my first experience with code switching was kind of difficult because my mom was stubborn and whenever she spoke she always thought that she was saying the right thing. So, I had a hard time making her understand that she was being misunderstood because she was speaking “broken