Ambivalent Attachment Style

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Good afternoon Cynthia, I enjoyed reading your discussion board post. I would like to first state that I do agree with what you have said regarding the ambivalent attachment style. This scenario in Candace’s life seems identical to what has been studied in class. In the end I hope she was able to understand that God would never abandon her and through him she could overcome this style because there is always opportunity for change towards a secure attachment style. Especially through God because I cannot imagine being able to do it without him. I believe even making the incremental changes would do good by “broadening and building” your relationship style.

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