I say this because about 2 years ago I met my best friend and current girlfriend. Her name is Allyson and she is a wonderfully spirited girl who is probably the most caring and passionate person I will ever meet in my life. She also has formed many social disorders like Anxiety disorder, and depression. Allyson also grew up in a family drastically different …show more content…
Allyson no longer lives with her mother anymore but the psychological scarring she left still remains, and I have seen the effects of it first hand many times. She is plagued with frequent panic attacks and sudden, irrational spouts of depression. She still is not used to the kindness she receives from my mother whenever she visits me at home. Love is almost alien to Allyson because of her past life experiences and it makes it very hard to form a stable relationship with her.
But after getting to know Ally for 2 years and being in a relationship for almost one year, I slowly have committed myself to being the person she can confide in most. Many people in her past have hurt her, like friends and family. When I learned of her past I don't know what compelled me but I wanted to be a person in her life that she could trust, and derive happiness out of.
She recently shared with me the fact that I actually fulfilled that role for her. She said that ever since she met me, I became her companion through all the hard times she's been through. Her words filled me with an indescribable feeling. I was so happy and moved by what she said because it meant I succeeded in becoming the person I wanted to be for