Events seem to direct the goal of elevation of the personality to a level that makes life seem worth living. As the oldest brother of three older sisters it seems self-evident but I was also pressing against being to be heard feeling important being recognized as an individual.
Getting the history of the client’s childhood is one of the most valuable things that can be done in understanding how they may view the world. Being empathetic and listening with great care paying attention to the event details is very important in helping construct goal directed behavior that was created out of past experiences in childhood.
Ensuring with the team that I’m working with the drama triangle and allowing them to remind me where I begin to play one of those roles has been fairly effective for me as a leader. Being able to recognize that I often play the role of a victim however unintentional and allowing them to point out to me creates camaraderie fun and even a certain amount of humility.
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I was amazed to see more joy that I actually realized I experienced. I also discovered how my body, particularly my back, would become very tense. This tension made me more aware of the thoughts I was having followed secondarily by the emotions that were present. Reviewing the events that were happening around my emotions help me understand better how some of my goal directed behavior was related to birth order inferiority and the Wright developmental model.
Flourishing as a goal as related to authentic happiness is definitely part of the coaching process. As I become more aware of my lack of positive emotions engagement interest meaning and purpose I become more aware of my lack of flourishing. As a coach one of the goals will be to guide those clients toward resilience optimism and positive relationships meaning and purpose self-esteem engagement and interest in their own positive emotions. Learning from my own past and be able to share my own journey with them will enhance my ability to