Once you get your bearings together regarding getting over a breakup, then you can begin to move on. You can look at the situation for what it is and was.
Now that you are back to your feet and living for you and seeing the light you can make mature decisions regarding your future. It may take quite some time, but you will be better once again.
You take the time to rehearse the relationship and figure out the good and bad. If the breakup was right then enjoy your life, you will