How To Stand Up To A Bully

I suppose parts of these advices are helpful and others aren 't or could make the situation even worse. You can stand up to the bully, if there are only one or two or not a lot of them. If you are alone and a lot of others bully you, I think it 's better to walk away from them. Then you can ignore their words, but that 's difficult, when these insulting words really hurt your feelings. Sometimes you want to defend yourself, but then it 's better to suppress your anger and sadness. Otherwise, if you ignore and don 't give your time and attention to them, they stop on their own, because it 's boring for the bully. If you show them or act as if you don 't care and don 't get hurt, they will stop bullying you, because you may become invisible to …show more content…
The person who you are telling should know everything that the bully is doing and shouldn 't be involved. It could be one of your parents, another relative, siblings, friends, the guidance counselor of your school or any other person whom you trust. This person can also give you helpful advice about what to do. Saying the things that are on your mind, will make you will feel better.
Depending on the situation, you could either ignore the bully and distance yourself from them. Or you stand up to the bully and defend yourself. It depends on the victim 's personality. If you are shy, inhibited, secluded and not self-confident you should avoid them. If you have self-confidence, self-assurance, and are not shy, you defend yourself. I prefer to defend yourself as soon as possible to prevent a rise of the situation. So, if you are the opinion that you can manage it, then do it. In my view it, is the best to …show more content…
Some of them were bullies themselves, victims or witnesses. On the one side there are bullies who were mean and on the other ones that were not so mean. Most of these bullies feel sorry for what they have done and have realized, that it was horrible, but there is also a story, named "Informed Consent", in which the bully doesn 't even remember what he had done. That 's probably because it wasn 't a big deal for him and he did it to a lot of other kids. As there are different kinds of bullies, the victims also dealt variable to the insults. For some victims it was life changing in a good way, as being bullied made them stronger. For example the approach "Now" is an evidence for the positive experiences the victim could take with her. In the approach " " the victim never really recovered form bad