Advanced Care Observation

I haven't had much exposure to the conversations behind death and prior to my visitation to the resident at Montgomery place, the topics behind death and dying always remained one filled with cautiousness, mystery yet beauty. In a way, death is a solemn yet majestic exoneration and culmination of a life well lived. It was understandable to have an apprehensive approach to this assignment. Although, I did I remain optimistic - having already seen elderly patients in clinics and in the hospital who were approaching the end of their lives, as well as engaging in the discussion regarding advanced care directives - this was different in the sense that I was affirming the end being in sight by actively participating in the topics behind dying. …show more content…
It was indeed a beautiful day out, one with the cheerful sun beating down upon our skins, creating a caramelizing reaction of nostalgic feelings and emotions of the days of our youth. Perhaps I noticed this significant more because I was more in tune with the thought of life as I prepared for a potentially difficult conversation about death.

For simplicity sake, I will address the resident as Mr. X - He was indeed a very well accomplished individual who reflected on the life that he has been given and how rich it has been. Upon meeting him, the disposition which permeated in mind suddenly changed. His approach to the conversation was one of comfort and confidence. He was well aware of the possibility of death, and seemed adequately prepared to deal with its existence. He was also very excited to share in his experiences with …show more content…
He stated that he had two prior episodes of a heart attack, and his children were very instrumental in discussing how his care should be approached. In this reflection, he spoke of how well informed his children are at addressing the very personal advanced directives that he has and he has full confidence that they will carry out exactly what he wishes. He even discussed the logistics of how he would like to be commemorated as he passes away. I was struck with a sense of acceptance and aw in the thought that even at such a perilous time, he will be well cared for to the best of his wishes, and that to me was the goal of this exercise. Furthermore, I discovered that he had been a victim of crimes against the elderly, as he discussed how ninety nine thousand dollars was stolen from him from a friend of his. Unfortunately, the elderly are predisposed to both illness and heinous acts against