Abstinence Before Marriage

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According to USA Today in the article "Waiting for Sex and Marriage? Evangelicals Conflicted", the evangelical church are promoting early marriage as a means of preventing our young ones from premarital sex- a ticket to guilt-free sex. Pushing people to marry in their early 20's, though the median age for first marriage in the U.S. is about 28 for men and 26 for women. Talk about evangelical churches conflicting premarital sex and early marriage with religion. Some evangelical leaders express their view that abstinence before marriage is the best and at the same time delaying marriages. The idea of abstinence is pushing the younger generation into early marriages which most people also believes is the reason for high risk of divorce for early

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