Perhaps it was aloof of me to venture for a different response. It would be too abstract to believe from anyone. My classmates are mindless slaves that see no difference. Like diverse citizens given the same speech about drinking and driving, or how to help with a natural disaster half a planet away. I grow tired.…
“Shes coming back right?” a baffled 7 year old asks in response to the appalling news of her mother’s death. A vibrant imagination is accompanied by a crushing pain of reality that trails behind it ; I discovered this when I heard the words “no” . 10 years later, that conversation lingers in my head and holds not a cacophonous nor euphonious sound, but instead holds the neutral tone of reality, an alarm . As routine , at 6a.m., I hear a melodious alarm followed by the pitter-patter of my aunt who is getting ready for work.…
INS Rough Draft In the novel, Girl Interrupted, by Susanna Kaysen, Susanna constantly noticed events around her that demonstrated prejudice against women. The novel was based in the 1960s when doctors did not know much about how to treat diseases. They could easily diagnose illnesses without needing proof that one had an illness, and for this reason, they commonly got the diagnoses wrong. There was a boom in the diagnosis for identity disorder around this time period.…
Passing (2004), by Nella Larsen, is a somber novel that is set in the 1925 to 1928-time period in Chicago and Harlem that explores the interactions between two women, Irene Redfield and Clare Kendry who are racial passing. Racial passing in the context of this book means that a person of one race can deceive others into thinking that they are of another race. This action allows for characters to adopt certain roles or identities; in which they can then be socially accepted by the rest of society. The novel deals with bi-racial characters that live life’s with lies and deception about who they are, specifically Irene and Clare. Irene and Clare struggle with crisis of identity throughout the novel.…
One’s identity is who they truly are as a person. People don’t define you. you define yourself. You define yourself with your actions, personality, and the roles you play in other people’s lives. At this point in my life I’m still trying to figure out who I am.…
I met strangers who eventually became great friends and sisters, they give me advice, a shoulder to cry on, they were the cheerleaders along the way edging me to keep my going going further , they gave me strength, optimism and support, they inspired me but most of all they understood fully what I was going through , not because they were clever or read up on broken and battered women , they have been there before ,just like me .They even understood when I told them I still loved Daniel , that's how sweet they were .My friends were the rose petals the wind had spontaneously blown onto my dusty road, they experiences paved the road for me making it so much easier and for that I will forever be grateful . These were the woman who encouraged…
I was born and raised in Brownsville, Texas; my environment shaped me to become someone responsible, an over achiever, and a determined young man. The people who had the biggest impact on me is the woman who gave me life, my father, and my community. My mother was already there for me even before I stared walking, she was there to comfort me when I fell on my knees. She was my first teacher, the one who taught me morals and set up my standards; whenever we had a family party and all of our thirty members were together, she will make me introduce and address myself to every single one and if ever forgot to say hi to someone she will just give me a look to make realize my mistake, and I will immediately go on to that person and say sorry for…
Respecting myself is what I consider to be one of my defining characteristics, so when I heard one of my male cross country teammates saying offensive things about me and my female teammates, I had to say something. At this time four out of the six girls on my team were dealing with some type of injury. Problems with our hips, knees, and ankles were some of the issues we were dealing with. This particular male teammate was saying things like, “Our girls team is really slacking right now.” In addition, he was mocking us by saying, “I can’t go to practice today because I have a hangnail.”…
“Lauren”. The horror I felt as they called my name was immense. I had been dreading graduation all year. I went up to take my diploma. I hugged Kasey, my teacher, and took my seat.…
In Munro’s Lives of Girls and Women, Del Johnson experiences a unique chronology of events the culminate in her coming of age, ending with a solidification of an identity for herself with her relationship with Garnet French. Aligning with Rishoi’s perspective, Del experiences her growth into adult life as a time to “assert the embodiedness of identity,” (Rishoi 12) by enjoying the sexual activity she and Garnet engage in. Del revels in the sex initially, but later finds that she is unprepared for the entanglements that Garnet expects to come along with the sex. In her experience, Del does not align with her mother’s opinion, but also does not submit to Garnet’s expectations, allowing and forcing her to “find a definition of womanhood that [she]…
Dazed and confused I wandered out the car a changed girl forever... Now most people don’t really flip cars in their lifetime. It really is a rare thing almost like pandas. Waking up that morning I did not intend to flip a car but that is exactly what I did. It was a regular school day.…
Significance in revealing the identity in “Girl” Born the oldest and only girl of her family Jamaica Kincaid felt like her mother turned away from her at a young age. The distant relationship between her mother and her spark the theme for Kincaid’s works. On June 26, 1978, Kincaid wrote what is to be one of her most iconic works till this day. “Girl” is a one-sentence short story.…
terrifying process. With this experience I realized my identity of a women was one of fear and exploitation. My body no longer belonged to me but belonged to everyone else. I was expected to be sexual by men of any age. My personal worth was and continues to be based on my sexiness…
Gender Identity is a person’s internal psychological self-concept of being either male or female (Zastrow, Ashman P. 399). I was born, and identify as a female. My sex is biological, and was assigned to me at birth by my doctor. My gender was learned through society which is gender-role socialization, is the process of conveying what is considered appropriate behavior and perspectives for males and females in a particular culture. (Zastrow, Ashman P. 399) Some of the agents that allow us to follow these social norms are family, education, peer groups, and media.…
When we were announced to break into two groups, those that feel privileged and those that feel non-privileged. In those few seconds, I knew we were going to be split up into girls and boys, however, I felt more accustomed to going with the guys then the girls, yet I stayed. It felt weird to say we were the oppressed group because we are women, yet I never felt that until I got into college. I never had to think about being a woman, only at times did I ask myself why was I born a woman. I think I felt weird due to being the oldest in my family, my family consists of my parents, my younger sisters and I.…