Study Abroad Characteristics

Improved Essays
The major characteristic I would like to hone in on during my study abroad program would be my self-confidence and ability to self-advocate. It has been increasingly noticeable that my level of confidence when I am surrounded by new people is lower than I would like it to be. I always second guess myself and try my hardest not to make any confrontation with others. By putting myself in a whole new world I will be exposed to all new people which will allow me to realize that my confidence is solely based on who I am and not what anybody else says. Since nobody will know who I am in a different country, I will also have to practice my self-advocating skills in order to first survive in the new environment and then thrive in it. Another aspect I would like to return with is a firm understanding of Italy and its …show more content…
Going from a senior in high school being on top of the social chain, involved in multiple organizations, being an athlete, and being a leader to being a lowly college freshman shook my world up. The noise from outer accomplishment and praised distracted me from focusing on who I am. Getting into college took all that noise away and left me alone with myself, allowing me to become more in touch with myself. The process of learning who I was all throughout the first semester of college has increased my level of emotional intelligence and ability to control my emotions. I have learned how to more accurately determine what emotion I am feeling and for what reason, along with recognizing others emotions. By being able to do this, I am more properly able to handle the emotions I feel and more decisively communicate with others by controlling my response based on their emotions. Being more emotionally intelligent helps me in any social situation, but will undoubtedly come in handy in a different

Related Documents

  • Decent Essays

    According to Shriberg & Shriberg, emotional intelligence (EI) is the ability to fully understand oneself and to relate well with others (page 91). Social intelligence is the ability to get along well with others and to get them to cooperate with you (page 93). Daniel Goldman’s theory on emotional intelligence is that it can be taught and has the ability to do the following: (page 91): • Motivate oneself and persist despite frustrations • Regulate one’s own moods • Empathize • Delay gratification • Handle stress well • Have verbal and nonverbal skills in sync • Have self/other acceptance/tolerance • Promote “group harmony”…

    • 299 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Crying through College College years are considered that time of a student’s life that allows them to find themselves, their significant other, or even just a member for their future wedding party. Nevertheless, as generations have progressed, the average student rarely shares this sentiment about college. Lisa Heffernan, the writer of “Survey: Most Freshmen Are Not Emotionally Prepared for College,” brings to attention one of the major reasons college students are having a difficult time getting this experience while in college: they simply are not emotionally ready. Heffernan successfully develops this article by giving convincing facts, statistics, and statements from several creditable sources, ending with appealing to the sentiments of…

    • 1145 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Emotional intelligence is the ability to manage emotions in such a way that promotes positive outcomes in one’s life. Emotional intelligence also refers to a specific set of cognitive abilities associated with emotions. Intelligence is defined by Wechsler as “the aggregate or global capacity to of the individual to act purposefully, to think rationally, and to deal effectively with his or her environment.” (pg. 2). Based off of Wechsler’s definition of intelligence, I do consider emotional intelligence (EI) to be a true form of intelligence, because accurately managing one’s emotions is vital towards acting purposefully, thinking rationally, and dealing with his/her environment.…

    • 566 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Attending college has changed my personality in positive ways. For one thing, I have become more confident. In some classes I have to do speeches, I am nervous when I have to do it, but in the end when you finish the speech and realize I did a good job, it raised my confidence. Also, I found my true self in college and I was able to find a group of people like me that I feel comfortable around and make me feel proud. A second effect is that I gained more knowledge.…

    • 168 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    College is a time of new experiences filled with new interests, new relationships, and many emotions. There have been theories made by several researchers that explain what college students go through and how they are affected by the sudden, exciting and [something] new environment that is college. It is a time of independence, but also of so much more. Arthur W. Chickering is one of these researchers that came up with a theory about the development that college students go through. This is called Chickering’s Seven Vectors of College Student Development, and I will discuss how the collegiate experience of Bryce Tham, a junior here at the University of California, Irvine, applies to this theory, as well as how his experiences will affect what…

    • 416 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Emotional Intelligence is defined as “the ability to identify, use, understand and manage your emotions in positive and constructive way.” (Lewis, 2012). And is broken down into four key components. These components are self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, and relationship management, all playing separate but equal roles in what makes someone emotionally intelligent. For example, self-awareness is someone being aware of their own emotions in a given situation, while self-management in the control of emotions while being socially aware.…

    • 1576 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Life is short, yet many people take it for granted. Life should be spent everyday focusing on your passions. I focus my time on seeking learning opportunities, helping others and travelling. These three passions are vital in my life to sustain my well being.…

    • 473 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Many people come into college feeling unprepared, nervous, and unconfident, and while being convinced that I was indeed prepared, I couldn’t help but feel some of these stressful emotions. Over the past month and a half, I have adapted to my new environment that is Pacific Lutheran University (PLU), and feel much more sure of myself as I continue through this semester. I have learned about what skills and mindsets can lead to a successful college experience, such as hope, grit, and resilience. I have also been able to reflect on myself as a person, and identify strengths, values, and abilities I possess that I can use to my advantage. Finally, I have learned about different resources I have surrounding me, and different aspects of PLU that…

    • 1241 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Great Essays

    So what, to go or not to go? According to the International Organisation for Economic Co-operation and Development 3.7 million students travel abroad each year. The number may seem really big, however, it’s only two percent of all college student. In the USA, this percentage a bit higher that in the world, but still keeps on the level of five - seven…

    • 1051 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Improved Essays

    There are several reasons for young generation having a desire to study abroad. Students would prefer to study in a foreign country in order to learn more advanced skills and technology. It is clear that it assists with the improvement of knowledge and language skills. Nowadays the young generation have become increasingly interested in studying in developed countries such as United states of America , Australia , Canada and forth. This essay will outline the problems that arise from communication and culture shock such as language, discrimination and living in a diverse society.…

    • 797 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    1) Report- From completing module 4 I have learnt and experienced what it means to understand and how to manage my emotions and emotional intelligence. Through learning about the nature of my emotions such as the valence and intensity, has given me the ability to make better decisions and cope with stressors in a healthier way. How technology also affects my emotions was interesting as I was able to relate with many of the influences provided in the module. I have gained a much broader mindset of my emotions throughout studying module 4, and I believe that this knowledge will help me not only at university but throughout the rest of my life.…

    • 1017 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Emotional Intelligence I believe I am lacking emotional intelligence because I don’t always manage my emotions well, but I can stay motivated when things are difficult in my life. There are many examples I could use, but I feel like the most recent would work best. Just a couple weeks ago I experienced myself acting irrationally towards my parents and I was neglecting their feelings, it all started when I began college. My parents were having a hard time with the transition of me not being home anymore and they were always calling and texting me wanting to know what I was doing, and it became very aggravating. My parents became too overwhelming and would not leave me alone, I eventually just stop responding for a while or when I was…

    • 1070 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Since it does, I can use this knowledge to better articulate my words during a discussion. This can help to achieve the desired outcome and avoid arguments. Also, when I feel emotional I try to stop and think why I am feeling this way. This can help me to decipher when…

    • 710 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    On this study abroad trip, I want to improve as a person, student, and as a business professional. If I am selected to take part in this program my goal, as a person is to depend on myself and learn about new surroundings. As a young adult going into the professional world I need to learn how to conduct myself in difficult situations. I feel as if I am in a different country other than my own, I will have to manage whatever problems arise and that will help me grow as a person.…

    • 737 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Travelling abroad is one of the best ways to step outside of your comfort zone. Everything is different – the people, the language, the food, the sight, the smell and an entirely new culture. Although most of the people who travel abroad experience some degree of culture shock, it is nothing to be afraid of. In fact, experiencing culture shock can be a very positive thing as it gives you the opportunity to learn about yourself, adapt to the new surroundings, understand different kinds of people, widen your horizons about different cultures that inhabit this planet and emerge as a global citizen.…

    • 1230 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays