They reasoned that the same three attachment styles identified in children might exist in adolescence and adulthood and have important implications for the formation of romantic relationships (Levy & Blatt 1999). Random samples were asked to respond to questions related to their “most important”…
Whether it began with God’s initial thought of every individual, or the very first time a mother was able to cradle her creation, love has, and will always be a driving force of the human psyche. The ability to love, not only enhances a person’s will to live, but it also shapes their concept of self-love. Unfortunately, this multiplex emotion often comes at a price, and is not always easy to attain. The human psychology inevitably revolves around affection, no matter the gender, race, or region of the world. Love, or lack…
The topic of interest that was investigated by researchers in this study was whether or not romantic mental representations of their attachment orientation alter individuals’ memories of incidents in their relationship. Adult attachment orientations in this research are examined mainly on two dimensions: attachment avoidance and anxiety. Researchers constructed their hypothesis based on the attachment theory which states an individual’s attachment system shapes their thoughts and behavior when distressed. The researchers hypothesized that individuals with avoidant attachment orientations would recall being less supportive and more emotionally distant than they were, when asked how they acted in a previous conflicting event. Furthermore, they hypothesized that individuals with anxiety attachment would recall being more supportive and less emotionally distant when asked about a past incident.…
These attachment styles explain both the parent’s and the child’s temperament which indicate family dynamics (Crain,…
This article talks about attachment theory and how it can be culturally different. Attachment theory is an emotional bond (can be long term or short term) that connects one person to another. For example, children seek for attachment when they need protection or love. In this article, the author wants to show how families that comes from another culture, tradition and country develop and achieve appropriate attachment sensitivity based on social and cultural context. Also how does it affect a client section, if the therapist understands the client’s background or not.…
No matter the type of relation, people desire an intimate relationship with a positive outcome. “Interdependence theory assumes that each of us has an idiosyncratic comparison level that describes the value of the outcomes that we believe we deserve in our dealings with others” (Miller, 2015, pg.177). Desirability pleasures intimate affection and brings enjoyment and…
I believe that I show a secure attachment style in my interactions with God and others. It is not a textbook secure attachment style because I find myself in different situations going between ambivalent and avoidant styles in a minor way. At times I want the attention from others, moving closer to them and trying to connect with them more. I am very content with where and who I am. I, in most things, feel that I am satisfied with myself and ability to interact with others.…
There are four major types of attachment secure attachment, and the other three avoidant attachment, resistant attachment, and disorganized (disoriented) attachment are forms of insecure attachment. Secure attachment is a relationship in which infants have formed a bond of trust and dependency with their mothers. This means that "the baby may or may not cry when the mother leaves, but when she returns the baby wants to be with her- if the baby is crying, it stops" (Kail & Cavanaugh, Chapter 5: Entering the Social World. In Essentials of Human Development, p. 128). Avoidant attachment is a relationship in which after a brief separation, infants turn away from their mother when they are reunited.…
Attachment and development Attachment can be dissented into two main categories; secure and insecure. Insecure attachment can further be spilt into different types; insecure-avoidant, insecure-ambivalent and insecure-disorganised. The relationship between an infant and their primary caregiver is fundamental for future relationships of the child. The child will use their first relationship as a template to apply to future relationship experiences.…
The behaviour of an individual and the relationships they have – whether it’s platonic, romantic or familial – can be traced back to early childhood - as early as infancy even. Bowlby (1977) defines attachment as; “an enduring emotional bond which an individual forms to another person.” In other words, attachment is a strong tie an individual has with special figures in their lives, in whom they place great trust in. When they interact with these special figures, they feel joy and experience pleasure, likewise, in times of distress, they turn to them to seek comfort.…
This study compares the attachment styles across two generations from mother to daughter then the daughter to her…
Love is one of the most essential emotions in life. People want to feel loved because it brings happiness and warmth to their hearts. Love makes people unconditionally selfless. They think about their loved ones before themselves. The researchers in Introducing Psychology (3rd ed.), Schacter, D. L., Gilbert, D. T., Wegner, D. M., & Nock M.K. (2015), discuss how six different perspectives in psychology can portray a behavior from a different angle.…
Everyone has an attachment style from which they developed in the first two years of their life. This attachment style tends to stay consistent with each person throughout their lifetime and effects their social-emotional development, and thus relationships with other people. Attachment styles greatly affect the choice one makes in life partners, and how to parent their own children. It is important for everyone to gain insight on their own attachment style if they are to know their emotional limits and how to strengthen their flaws in order to develop a better-self and stronger relationships with other people. It is even more so important for caregivers to be aware of their attachment style and how sensitively available they are to the children…
Many people who have an anxious/preoccupied attachment appear clingy in a relationship. One thing that makes this style different from a secure attachment is that they have a negative view of themselves and a positive view of their partner. Tai describes a person who has this type of attachment as having “high levels of emotional expressiveness, worry, and impulsivity in relationships”. The third type of adult attachment is dismissive/avoidant. People with this style are okay without a close intimate and emotional relationship.…
An emotional bond must be established and maintained over time, although the need for intimacy can be fulfilled through mutually rewarding relationships with friends, family members and co-workers. The formation of a mutually satisfying close relationship can be a challenge and the maintenance of intimacy in the relationship requires that both partners’ interests and values are considered (Berk, 2014, p.…