The power of love, the struggle, the hurt and the solution in a relationship
A few years ago, my husband and I decided to have a date at the movies with a few friends to watch a love movie. When we got to the movies and walked inside the theater all the seats were taken. There were many people waiting for the movie to start. I was so excited and anxious to see this movie I couldn’t wait for the movie to start because this movie was going to be very interesting. The movie was about things that happen in a relationship in everyday life. This movie was so important to me not only because I was watching the movie with my husband, but because we were facing the same problem in our relationship. When we start in a relationship everything at the …show more content…
The relationship becomes a routine. The struggles begin; at some time or another almost every healthy relationship suffers a breakdown where one or both parties are ready to walk out the door. In my case it wasn’t only the routine or the kids, my husband started training at the gym and Cross fit 5 days of the week but once he got accepted to compete on a TV show the 5 days of training turned into 7 days of training. At first I was ok, but then things started to get worst because we weren’t spending any time together. We both worked different shifts so by the time I got home he was already sleeping and when it was time for me to get up he was already gone. I struggle with this for a long time because even though I wasn’t happy I was afraid to let him know how I felt. I didn’t want to crush his dream since I always supported him. One thing my mother always used to tell me was “power …show more content…
I contact a marriage counseling and scheduled an appointment. On Monday morning, I went to my first appointment by myself, because I wanted to see what she suggested before I contact my husband. My first appointment was great, after my appointment I called my husband and invited him. He also agrees that we both needed to go to marriage counseling. The following week Thursday morning we both met at the doctor’s office we hug and smile at each other. When it was our turn to go inside to talk to the doctor he grabbed me by my hand and we both walked in. We sat and the first thing the Dr. Smith said: “ I’m glad you both walked in holding hands” She told us that sometimes expressing’s our feelings can be very hurtful to the other person, but she ask us shouldn’t you be honest about your feelings? If honestly expressing your feelings is hurtful to the other person, it’s not honest; it’s stupid, it’s insensitive, and it’s damaging to the relationship that’s why there is always a solution for a broken marriage. Our first visit was great she told us stuff that we never knew we were doing wrong. She gives us few tips on how to deals with a bad situation and to do things to bring our marriage back to life. After the appointment, my husband told me to go home and get
A few years ago, my husband and I decided to have a date at the movies with a few friends to watch a love movie. When we got to the movies and walked inside the theater all the seats were taken. There were many people waiting for the movie to start. I was so excited and anxious to see this movie I couldn’t wait for the movie to start because this movie was going to be very interesting. The movie was about things that happen in a relationship in everyday life. This movie was so important to me not only because I was watching the movie with my husband, but because we were facing the same problem in our relationship. When we start in a relationship everything at the …show more content…
The relationship becomes a routine. The struggles begin; at some time or another almost every healthy relationship suffers a breakdown where one or both parties are ready to walk out the door. In my case it wasn’t only the routine or the kids, my husband started training at the gym and Cross fit 5 days of the week but once he got accepted to compete on a TV show the 5 days of training turned into 7 days of training. At first I was ok, but then things started to get worst because we weren’t spending any time together. We both worked different shifts so by the time I got home he was already sleeping and when it was time for me to get up he was already gone. I struggle with this for a long time because even though I wasn’t happy I was afraid to let him know how I felt. I didn’t want to crush his dream since I always supported him. One thing my mother always used to tell me was “power …show more content…
I contact a marriage counseling and scheduled an appointment. On Monday morning, I went to my first appointment by myself, because I wanted to see what she suggested before I contact my husband. My first appointment was great, after my appointment I called my husband and invited him. He also agrees that we both needed to go to marriage counseling. The following week Thursday morning we both met at the doctor’s office we hug and smile at each other. When it was our turn to go inside to talk to the doctor he grabbed me by my hand and we both walked in. We sat and the first thing the Dr. Smith said: “ I’m glad you both walked in holding hands” She told us that sometimes expressing’s our feelings can be very hurtful to the other person, but she ask us shouldn’t you be honest about your feelings? If honestly expressing your feelings is hurtful to the other person, it’s not honest; it’s stupid, it’s insensitive, and it’s damaging to the relationship that’s why there is always a solution for a broken marriage. Our first visit was great she told us stuff that we never knew we were doing wrong. She gives us few tips on how to deals with a bad situation and to do things to bring our marriage back to life. After the appointment, my husband told me to go home and get