Hello Dar,
I’ve been thinking about this post for a long time… Your mother is correct, it is complicated. But your view of this situation is also very understanding. Being able to understand it’s not just a simple black and white thing, and how there are grey areas, shows on your behalf of someone who isn’t hard lined in their own views.
- No children that’s the kicker. …It should be fairly easy to remove himself from the marriage.
- Financial - unless he is somehow financially invested into his current wife, such as joint property, stocks, bonds and etc.
If neither of those two things are involved, I see no reason for why he is still with her…unless. He is in love with both women. This happens when both women combine to make the perfect …show more content…
This man was able to connect with he like no other person has ever. It’s not because of lack of trying, it’s that once in a lifetime connection you end up comparing everyone else to and you find they don’t come remotely close.
I sit back and think of my own life experiences. Francine was someone who I loved whole heartedly…nothing compared…for the most part, still. I dated others but Fran was that person I compared everyone else to. So, these ladies didn’t have a chance because my heart and mind was consumed… It took over ten whole years to move on but even today when we talk on occasion its like…man.
Now, let’s rewind almost eight years ago now… there were two women which I deciding on to marry…my current wife or this other woman. The other woman’s parents intervened for whatever reason and said no, don’t be involved with him. Long story short, we spent merely week together and eight years later, she will not date anyone else. If I wanted to be grimy, she would meet me anywhere in the world just to be together for a night or two. I’ve gone as far to help her find someone else to be with, however, she refuses because I’m the only one she loves. I’m not her first, but very well could be her
I’ve been thinking about this post for a long time… Your mother is correct, it is complicated. But your view of this situation is also very understanding. Being able to understand it’s not just a simple black and white thing, and how there are grey areas, shows on your behalf of someone who isn’t hard lined in their own views.
- No children that’s the kicker. …It should be fairly easy to remove himself from the marriage.
- Financial - unless he is somehow financially invested into his current wife, such as joint property, stocks, bonds and etc.
If neither of those two things are involved, I see no reason for why he is still with her…unless. He is in love with both women. This happens when both women combine to make the perfect …show more content…
This man was able to connect with he like no other person has ever. It’s not because of lack of trying, it’s that once in a lifetime connection you end up comparing everyone else to and you find they don’t come remotely close.
I sit back and think of my own life experiences. Francine was someone who I loved whole heartedly…nothing compared…for the most part, still. I dated others but Fran was that person I compared everyone else to. So, these ladies didn’t have a chance because my heart and mind was consumed… It took over ten whole years to move on but even today when we talk on occasion its like…man.
Now, let’s rewind almost eight years ago now… there were two women which I deciding on to marry…my current wife or this other woman. The other woman’s parents intervened for whatever reason and said no, don’t be involved with him. Long story short, we spent merely week together and eight years later, she will not date anyone else. If I wanted to be grimy, she would meet me anywhere in the world just to be together for a night or two. I’ve gone as far to help her find someone else to be with, however, she refuses because I’m the only one she loves. I’m not her first, but very well could be her