6 Things You Re Doing Wrong During Your Breakup

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6 Things You're Doing Wrong During Your Breakup Everyone acts a little crazy when they're going through a breakup. It's just part of human nature to feel angry, hurt, sad and more when someone tells you they don't want to be your partner anymore. It's hard not to take those words personally even when they weren't meant that personally at all.

Men and women both handle breaking up quite badly. Men go a little nuts, flirt with anything that moves, taking whoever to their beds in a bid to make themselves feel better again. Single means they can do what they like, right?

Women on the other hand, well they handle things slightly differently. The world stops when you break up with a woman whether your relationship lasted for five minutes or fifty years. When a woman gets attached to a man, she gets really attached and when the
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If you seem to be finding yourself in a breakup / makeup cycle, it will continue to go around like that until YOU eventually put an end to it.

6 - You're not strong enough.

I know your heart is hurt and your pride is dented but sleeping with your ex is a very bad idea. You'll get feelings that he won't get and when he starts dating someone else, or ends up in bed with someone else, you'll be the one left feeling hurt, sad, lonely and gutted.

He'll probably continue to sleep with you because that's what men do. They can distinguish between 'love' and 'just sex' much better than women can. He thinks nothing of that Friday night fumble but when you find out about it, it will tear your soul to shreds... If you let it.

Being strong right now might seem like the most impossible thing in the world but sometimes, if you don't feel it, you just need to fake it. Say "No" to talking, to sleeping with him one last time, to drinking that last bottle of wine with him. Just say no. He's like a drug - he's probably very bad for

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