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SOCIAL EXCHANGE (KNOX)
BREAKUPS HAPPEN WHEN THE COSTS OF THE RELATIONSHIP OUTWEIGHT THE REWARDS ALSO WHEN ONE COMPARES THEIR RELATIONSHIPS TO ALTERNATIVE ONES. IF THEY PERCEIVE THE ALTERNATIVE IS MORE DESIRABLE, THE CURRENT ONE IS LIKELY TO END
UNEQUAL ATTACHMENT (BURGESS & WALLIN)
POWER ISSUES OCCUR WHEN A BALANCE IN ATTACHMENT BETWEEN BOTH INDIVIDUALS ISN'T MAINTAINED.
STRAIGHTALK
SPEAKING IMMEDIATELY IF SOMETHING IS BOTHERING YOU. SPEAK WITH SENSITIVITY IN CLEAR STATEMENTS ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS AND CONCERNS WITHOUT CRITICISM OR JUDGEMENT
PRIMARY STYLES OF LOVING (LEE)
EROS - PASSIONATE LOVE
LUDUS - UNCOMMITTED GAME PLAYING
STORGE - AFFECTIONATE FORM OF LOVE FOR SIBLINGS AND FRIENDS
SECONDARY STYLES OF LOVING (LEE)
MANIA - COMBINATION OF EROS & LUDUS, JEALOUSY, POSSESIVENESS, OBSESSION.
PRAGMA - LUDUS AND STORGE, PRACTICAL APPROACH, LOOK FOR SIMILAR BACKGROUNGS
AGAPE - EROS & STORGE - DERIVED FROM CHRISTIANITY, ALTRUISTIC LOVE
TRIANGLE MODEL OF LOVE (STERBERG)
THREE KEY COMPONENTS
INTIMACY - EMOTIONAL COMPONENT
PASSION - MOTIVATION ASPECT, CHEMISTRY BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE
COMMITMENT - SHORT TERM TO LOVE SOMEONE, LONG TERM COMMITMENT TO MAINTAIN THAT LOVE.
8 KINDS OF LOVE (STERNBERG)
1) NONLOVE - ACQUAINTANCES
2) LIKING - HIGH INTIMACY - FRIENDS LOW PASSION AND COMMITMENT
3) INFACTUATION - LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT -HIGH PASSION, LOW INTIMACY AND COMMITMENT
4) EMPTY LOVE STAY TOGETHER FOR THE KIDS - HIGH COMMITMENT, LOW OR ABSENT INTIMACY AND PASSION
5) ROMANTIC LOVE - HIGH PASSION AND INTIMACY,NO COMMITMENT HIGH SCHOOL SWEETHEARTS
6) COMPANIONATE LOVE - GOOD COMPANIONS, NO LONGER PASSIONATE -HIGH INTIMACY AND COMMITMENT , BUT NO PASSION
7) FATUOUS LOVE - WHIRLWIND COURTSHIPS HIGH COMMITMENT AND PASSION, BUT NO INTIMACY
8) CONSUMMATE LOVE - LOVE, INTIMACY AND PASSION.
VERY RARE.
4 TRAITS LOOKED FOR IN A MATE ACROSS CULTURES
1) MUTUAL ATTRACTION - LOVE
2) DEPENDABLE CHARACTER
3) EMOTIONAL STABILITY AND MATURITY
4) PLEASING DISPOSITION
LOVE
AN ATTITUDE HELD BY A PERSON INVOLVING PREDISPOSITIONS TO THINK, FEEL AND BEHAVE IN CERTAIN WAYS TOWARD THAT OTHER PERSON
PHILIA
BROTHERLY LOVE BETWEEN FRIENDS AND COMPANIONS.
FILTER THEORY
PEOPLE SIFT ELIBIBLE CANDIDATES THROUGH SUCCESSIVE LEVELS OF CRITERIA. SUCH AS GEOGRAPHICAL PROXIMITY, SOCIAL CLASS, RACE, ETHNICITY, RELIGION, PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS AND AGE. FAMILIES AND FRIENDS WILL ALSO HELP FILTER.
5 MYTHS ABOUT GOOD MARRIAGES
1) OUR MARRIAGE WILL NOT BE LIKE THE UNHAPPY ONES WE SEE
2) MARRIED PEOPLE MAKE EACH OTHER HAPPY
3) WE WILL NOT HAVE SERIOUS DISAGREEMENTS
4) MY SPOUSE WILL SATISFY ALL OF MY NEEDS
5) MORE LOVE MEANS LESS CONFLICT
5 MARRIAGE TYPES (CUBER AND HAROFF)
1) CONFLICT-HABITUATED MARRIAGE - TENSION AND CONFLICT RULE THE RELATIONSHIP
2) DEVITALIZED MARRIAGE - DEEPLY IN LOVE IN BEGINNING, GROW APART, STAY TOGETHER DUE TO OBLIGATION
3) PASSIVE-CONGENIAL MARRIAGE - LIKE DIVITALIZED, BUT PASSIVITY AT START, THEY HAVE LOW EXPECTATIONS AND ARE PRACTICAL
4) VITAL MARRIAGE - INTENSELY BOUND. VALUE SHARING AND TOGETHERNESS, ONLY DISAGREE ON SPECIFIC THINGS.
5) TOTAL MARRIAGE - LIKE VITAL BUT PARTNERS SPEND MORE TIME TOGETHER
4 TYPES OF MARITAL RELATIONSHIPS (WALLERSTEIN AND BLAKESLEE)
ROMANTIC - PASSIONATE, SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP
RESCUE - COMFORT FOR PAST UNHAPPINESS, HEALING IS A FOCUS
COMPANIONATE - FRIENDSHIP & EQUITY
TRADITIONAL - CLEAR CUT DIVISIONS OF ROLES
KINDS OF LOVE (BERSCHEID & WALSTER)
PASSIONATE LOVE - INTENSE EMOTIONS THAT ARE LINKED TO SEXUAL FEELINGS, CHEMISTRY
COMPANIONATE LOVE - DURABLE ATTACHMENTS, MILDER, MORE STABLE WTIH DEPENDABLITY AND WARMTH.