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What's most powerful predictor of friendship?
Proximity- functional distance
Functional distance
How often people's paths cross.
Why does proximity predict liking?
1-Increases opportunity for interaction.
2-Anticipating interaction promotes liking.
3-Mere exposure promotes liking.
Explain study about liking and exposure.
Subjects got a dossier of 2 people. Were told they would meet one of them after. Would consistently like the one they anticipated meeting.
The more we are exposed to novel stimuli. But what are the qualifications?
1.Works BEST when we are not aware of the exposure.
2.Exposure can't be continuous.
3.Doesn't work if we have a strong, pre-existing opinion.
Does physical attractiveness matter?
Yes.
Attractiveness and dating frequency.
Attractiveness moderately predicts dating frequency. Slightly more for women than men.
What is the matching phenomenon?
-We tend to choose partners who are a "good match" in attractiveness and other traits.
What do 'less attractive' partners often do?
Compensate, ex. by being wealthy.
What is the physical attractiveness stereotype?
-Presumption that physically attractive people possess other socially desirable traits.
-Whatever is beautiful is good.
-Whatever is ugly is bad.
Do opposites attract?
no. Based on a lot of research.
Do birds of a feather flock together?
Yes.
Likeness begets liking.
Dissimilarity breeds dislike.
Attribution
Liking begets liking, if it's believable (not fake).
Self-esteem and attraction.
Low self-esteem increases our tendency to find others attractive. (rebound).
Is love blind?
No. We marry similar people.
Passionate love
Intense longing.
Ecstatic when we gain.
Desolate when we loose.
Companionate love
Deep, affectionate, attachment.
Affection we feel for those with whom our lives are deeply intertwined.
Two factor theory of emotion.
arousal + label = emotion
-Adrenaline makes the heart grow fonder.
Attachment styles:
Secure.
Avoidant.
- Dismissive (distrust of others)
- Fearful (fear of rejection)
Preoccupied
-anxious, ambivalent, (indifferent or hostile)
As adults avoidant attached will be:
short term relationships.
As adults preoccupied attached will be:
make-up/break-up cycle.
Equity
-Gains from the relationship should be equal to what's put in it.
-Long term relationships focus on long-term equity.
Disclosure reciprocity
Tendency to match your disclosure with the other person's.
Coping with a failing relationship. Three ways:
-Loyalty. Stick it out and wait for things to improve.
-Neglect. Ignore problems, wait for deterioration.
-Talking. Voice concerns, work to solve problems.
Why do we help- 3 theories
Social Exchange
Social Norms
Evolutionary theory
Altruism- Social Exchange theory
Interactions are transactions that aim to maximize rewards and minimize costs. (nonconsciously)
Is helping simply disguised self-interest? Research suggests:
Yes- We help others to reduce our own distress.
No - Empathy leads to increased helping.
Altruism - Social Norms theory.
The reciprocity norm.
-Universal expectation that people will help, not hurt those who have helped them.
The social-responsibility norm.
-Expectation that people will help those dependent on them. We help 'victims' but not the negligent.
Altruism - Evolutionary theory.
Kin selection. Help shared genes.
Reciprocity. Help those who will help us in the future.
Situational influences in helping
Number of bystanders.
Help when someone else does.
Time Pressures.
Bystander effect
Less likely to help when there is a group of bystanders.
What needs to happen for helping to occur:
Noticing.
Interpreting.
Assuming responsibility.
Bystanders inhibit most when:
1.They are strangers.
2.The number of bystanders inhibits noticing.
3.The emergency appears ambiguous.
4. They can't easily read each others' reactions.
5. They can assume someone else can help.
Altruism and feelings:
-Guilt.
-Sad, (adults, but not children) will help if it will improve their mood.
-Happy, happy people are more helpful people.
-Non-helping moods: anger, depression, grief.
What are the helpful personality traits?
Empathy, self-efficacy, high self-monitoring.
Helping and gender.
Men more often help women, but women help either gender equally.
Helping and similarity.
More likely to help those similar to us. Also true with race, but only if we won't appear racist.
To get help:
1. Reduce ambiguity. Make it clear you need help.
2. Increase responsibility. By decreasing anonymity.
3. Trigger guilt.
4.Increase concern for self image.
- Door-in-the-face technique (after large request refused, offer a more reasonable one).
- Every penny will help.
To socialize altruism:
1. Teach moral inclusion.
2. Model.
3. Avoid overjustification (bribes, ect)
4. Learning about altruism increases it.
Define Conflict
Perceived incompatibility of actions or goals.
Prisoner's dilemma
Both confess= both 5 years
Neither confess= both 1 year
One confess= confessor 0 years, non confessor 10 years.
Tragedy of the commons.
Everybody uses one cow, everybody happy. Everybody use two cows, commons ruined. You use two cows, but nobody else, you double gain, but commons fine.
Primary features of a social dilemma.
-Triggers fundamental attribution error (I'm influenced by situation, you by character)
-Leads to changing motives (make money, minimize loss, avoid defeat)
-Tends to be non-zero sum game (cooperation can be win-win, competition can be lose-lose)
Resolving social dilemmas:
1.Regulate self-serving behavior.
2.Make group sizes small. (increases responsibility)
3.Communication
4. Change payoff schedule (make cooperation more rewarding)
5.Appeal for altruistic norms.
What else kindles conflict?
Competition.
Perceived injustice (My outcome/input does not equal yours).
Misperception. (Like mirror-image perception. Both sides attribute same positive stuff to self and negative stuff to other)
The four C's of making peace.
Contact.
Cooperation.
Communication.
Conciliation.
Contact.
When does desegregation improve racial attitudes.
1. Prolonged, personal contact.
2. Equal-status contact.
How to foster cooperation.
1.Common external threats.
2.Superordinate goals (that are obtained!)
3. Cooperative learning.
Explain Sherif's experiment.
Fostered animosity between then had a supply truck break down in which they had to work together to get the supplies.
Structured communication
Bargaining.
Mediation (neutral 3rd party facilitates communication and offers suggestions. Looking for a win-win solution.
Arbitration. (neutral 3rd party studies both sides then imposes a settlement.)
Graduated and Reciprocated Initiatives in Tension Reduction (GRIT)
Strategy to de-escalate international relations.
1.State your desire to reduce tension.
2. Declare your intention to make a conciliatory act.
3. Carry out your verifiable conciliatory act.
4. Maintain your retaliatory capability.
5. Wait for your adversary's response.
6. Match your adversary's response (either conciliatory or aggressive).