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13 Cards in this Set
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cohabitation vs Lifetime partnership vs marriage |
Marriage, living and loving not technically married, living together for financial or some other benefit (not love like that) |
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Identity tasks |
-resources -time -energy -money |
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External boundary Tasks |
-Family versus Partner -primary loyalties & triangulation -Individuation |
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Internal boundaries |
Balancing separateness vs connectedness |
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Maintenance Tasks |
*Housework roles -roles & identity/counterrolls/Significance |
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Nurturance Tasks |
Communication & intimacy Conflict mgmt Dyadic sex scrips 5 W's Women controls frequency |
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Intimacy and Communication |
Effect each other many levels/ways to exchange info via Comm. |
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Axioms of Communication |
-Can't NOT communication -All behavior is communication -All Comm. provides self, other & relationship info |
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Framing |
Interpritations we make based on messages and metamessages of a person. |
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Self Disclosure |
Sharing with others to gain trust and resiprocity |
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Emotional Bids |
Birds on the feed*
Turning towards, away or against |
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Management (or Mis-) of Conflict
Goals |
Avoidance winning Intimacy |
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Couple Configurations |
Avoid/Avoid- Psuedo-mutuality
Avoid/Win - Complementary Pattern
Avoid/ Intimacy - Persue/Distance
Win/Win - Symmetric Escalations
Win/Intimate- Pursue Dustance
Intimate/Intimate- Good enough! Importance of talking |
