Interpersonal Chap 7

Front 1

a type of self-disclosure presenting one's attitudes, opinions, assessments of person/place or thing (reciprocated)

Back 1

Evaluative Intimacy

Front 2

type of self-disclosure objective observation, self-revelations, personal info

Back 2

Descriptive Intimacy

Front 3

Theory with each relationship assessed in terms of rewards and costs developing more intimacy over time, depth(content) and breadth (number)

Back 3

Social Penetration Theory

Front 4

refers to behavior so common its expected, offering communicative response that matches a partner's previous communication

Back 4

The Norm of Reciprocity

Front 5

phenomenon of communicator matching partner's previous disclosure at a similar level of intimacy (part of norm of reciprocity)

Back 5

Dyadic Effect

Front 6

Reasons to reciprocate (match)

Back 6

1. appropriate in context
2. when you trust person
3. exchange so you don't feel indebted to other person

Front 7

Reasons for Topic Avoidance

Back 7

Relationship-based motivation (effects)
Individual based (your image)
Information based (what you have to say)

Front 8

types of family secrets

Back 8

Taboo (substance, suicide)
Rule Violation (partying, premarital)
Conventional (traditions)

Front 9

says ppl balance protecting themselves and protecting others
degree of expressiveness and protectiveness

Back 9

Model of Disclosure Decision Rules

Front 10

Decision rules stating we need to be open and the degree of trust because disclosure makes us susceptible to hurt

Back 10

Tolerance of Vulnerability

Front 11

decision rule discussing infor about some feature of our partner compromising
perceived need to be honest about issue at hand
our restraint that certain topics should be avoided

Back 11

Likelihood of Candor

Front 12

how ppl in various relationships create and coordinate their privacy boundaries, the amount of disclosure defines our privacy

Back 12

Communication Privacy Management

Front 13

criteria/standards, help decide whether to disclose or the keep private

Back 13

Privacy rule foundations

Front 14

how boundaries are created and used

Back 14

Boundary coordination operations

Front 15

negotiating boundaries how ppl respond to private disclosure from others

Back 15

Boundary coordination

Front 16

Five Suppositions of communication privacy management

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1. private info constitutes content of disclosure
2. boundaries how what is personal and shared
3. private info something they own and control
4. rules to coordinate what is personally and collectively controlled
5. assumes people experience dialectical tensions

Front 17

variation between not revealing info and revealing a lot of info

Back 17

permeability

Front 18

reflect opposing means giving up our privacy and that ppl fluctuate between desire to be open and desire to be private

Back 18

Dialectical tensions

Front 19

Privacy rule Foundations

Back 19

cultural criteria
gendered criteria
contextual criteria
motivational criteria
risk-benefit criteria

Front 20

when private info becomes collectively shared

Back 20

Boundary linkages

Front 21

how boundary linkages occur

Back 21

transformation
appropriation