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26 Cards in this Set
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Differance between Friendship and love
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-Exclusivity and deeper bond
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How men view sex and love
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- can view sex and love independtently
-sex can occor without love -physical relationships are important -satisfying experiences often are in loving relationships |
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How women view sex and love
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-sex enhannces love
-emotional relationships are importnat -self-worth tied into relationships -Lebian women tend to focus first on emotional ties |
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Eros
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Love and beauty
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Mania
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obsessive love/ posessive love
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Ludus
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playful love
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Storge
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companionate love (friendship)
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Agape
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altruistic love (brotherly)
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Pragma
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practical love (semilarities intamicy)
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Types of attachment
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-Secure
-Anxious -Avoidant |
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Cyrano Style (unrequited love)
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Knows love is hopeless, it will never be returned
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Giselle Style (unrequited love)
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msinterprets signals; thinks love is possible
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Don Quixote Style (unrequited love)
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Simply want to be loved
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Typles of jealousy
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Suspicious: no base for concern
Reactive: reacting to something that has happened |
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Intimate Love (intimacy)
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I got you babe
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Commitment (intmacy)
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conscious choise
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Caring (intmacy)
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needs are equal
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Self-discloeser (intmacy)
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wall are coming down
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Characteristics of love
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-Caring
-trust -sharing -needing |
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Non-verbal communication
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-eye contact
-touching -proximity -body language |
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Halo effect
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aw goshhy like
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Women Vs. men communication styles
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Men: tend to withdraw or send more neg. messages
Women: tend to be more clear, set emotional tone of argument, more discriptive in speech |
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Barriers to effective communication
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-Bypassing
-fram of reference -lack of language skills -lack of listening *** -mind-altering drugs -gender issues -Attitudes about sexuality |
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Learning assertiveness
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DESC
D-describ E-express S-Specify C-choose |
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Aggressiveness
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Putting down someone elses rights inorder to get yours
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Assertiveness
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Stating your right while keeps the other person right equal to your own
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