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50 Cards in this Set
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We fall in love with the person who offers us the fairest exchange.
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Equity
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Not attracted to people who give you negative reinforcement.
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bymes law of attraction
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Learn to like people who are associated with positive events or qualities.
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bymes law of attraction
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Attracted to someoone who is our temperamental opposite.
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complemetary needs
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Can lead to trouble if we want the person to fill the missing parts instead of improving ourselves.
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complelmentary needs
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Feel attracted to people who give you positive reinforcement.
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bymes law of attraction
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Dislike people associated with negative events or qualities.
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bymes law of attraction
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Looking for a person who is like your mother or father.
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parent image
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Someone who fills your expectations of what a partner should do or be.
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role compatibility
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Trade our positives and negatives in exchange for the other person's positives and negatives.
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equity
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Attracted to someone who has charactersitics we admire and would like in ourselves.
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complementary needs
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Tendency to chose someone who lives close to your home.
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propinquity
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Likes attract likes.
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homogamy
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You are likely to be attracted to people who you think are the most like you in these areas: physical appearance, mental health, physical health, family background, family stability, and populartity.
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homogamy
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Based on the ideas that we: seek pleasure and avoid pain, are inherently selfish, are happiest when we get what we think we deserve, and try to balance realationships.
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equity
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Attracted to someone who has charactersitics we admire and would like in ourselves.
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complementary needs
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Tendency to chose someone who lives close to your home.
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propinquity
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Likes attract likes.
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homogamy
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You are likely to be attracted to people who you think are the most like you in these areas: physical appearance, mental health, physical health, family background, family stability, and populartity.
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homogamy
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Based on the ideas that we: seek pleasure and avoid pain, are inherently selfish, are happiest when we get what we think we deserve, and try to balance realationships.
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equity
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Which of the following is not a sign of infatuation.
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-fear of rejection
-heartache -drastic mood swings -constantly thinking of the person |
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Infatuation is beleived to last for apporiximately.
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2 weeks to 2 years
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According to Sternverg's Thoery of Complete Love, what are the 3 sides of the triangle that must be in place for the most positive relationship?
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intimacy, passion, commitment
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Intimacy according to Sternberg is:
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a connected feeling
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According to Sternberg, what type of love is lacking intimacy and passion?
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Empty love
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"The more I get to know her, the better she becomes"
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Stage 1
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One minute I'm sure, the next I'm not.
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Stage 2
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I'm jealous.
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Stage 1
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I'm beginning to see a side of her I've never seen before... and I'm not sure I like it.
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Stage 2
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I can't believe how great he is .. he's just wonderful.
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Stage 1
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Once I realized she wasn't going to cook all the meals, I realized she wasn't marriage material.
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Stage 2
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I think I'm in love!
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Stage 1
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We're growing apart.
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Stage 2
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I can live with the fact that he has a few faults.
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Stage 3
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She isn't that way when we're alone.
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Stage 1
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All types of love are positive, because love feels so good it must be positive.
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false
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Nurturing or Mature Love makes a person feel proud and amibitious, not want to give up everything for love like infatuation.
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true
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People in romantic love idealize their partners and often can't see any faults in that person.
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true
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Most people have a highly romanticized view of love.
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true
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Most people will be infatuated many times before thay find a mature love relationship.
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true
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Finds joy in separateness as well as togetherness.
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love
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Grows slowly and steadily.
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love
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Very selfish in actions.
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infatuation
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Emotions flow at a fast rate.
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infatuation
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Aware of the other person's faults, but accepts them as part of the total personality.
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Love
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Tries not to see the other person's faults.
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Infatuation
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Enhanced by time.
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love
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Makes one feel proud, confident, and ambitious.
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love
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May be distrustful of friends.
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infatuation
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Often pushes people away, jealousy is often present.
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infatuation
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