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Gendered Interactions

Communication


Friendship


Love


Sex

Communication

Written/ Spoken language + non-verbal




Symbols

Gendered Language

Shapes:




Thoughts


Perceptions


Communication


Interaction


Social Arrangements


Reflects Bias + Stereotypes


Saphir-Whorf Hypothesis

Language is limited to what we are allowed to communicate




Communication is limited by language

Linguistic Sexism

Invisibility


Depreciation

Invisibility

Spotlighting




Generic Language





Spotlighting

"female pilot" "male nurse"




Highlights difference

Generic Language

"Mankind"




Using "man" generally




Taking your husbands name.

Depreciation

Semantic Derogation

Semantic Derogation

Use of language to create hierarchy




Same activity different words --> negative connotation based on gender (especially for women)




Trivialized --> girl, honey, chick




Feminine words = negative (pussy, wuss, girl etc)




Female version of words based on male base (princess/prince)

Gendered Use of Language

Men --> Ladder, asserting dominance, establish position.




Women --> Web, create networks.

Men's Use of Language

Use conversations to establish position in hierarchy conversations as negotiations for domination.




Disclose less personal information




Use less fewer intensifiers




Make direct and delcarative statments




Topic Rejection --> issue of power

Women's Use of Language

Confirmation and support talk




Conversation as negotiations for closeness & consensus




negotiated privately but less publicly


ask more questions


use more personal pronouns


intonation --> declarative statements turned into a question


Hedge and back channel


Hedge --> "I believe'


Back Channel --> encourage the speaker

Gendered Differences in Friendship

Men used to be very affectionate in friendships


More touching, sitting on each other, feminine poses.




Robert Lewis --> 4 barriers




influences of age, race, sexual orientation




Homophobia in same-sex relationship --> affect men




Sexual tension in cross-sex relationships --> sexualization of the male touch















Female Friendships

Have deeper friendships




Women talk more --> Face to face




Choose friends based on connection




Lesbians have more in common with heterosexual women and have friendships with them.



Male Friendships

Men "do" more




Choose friends do to common interest




Talking about personal issues --> men talk to women.




Side by side

Robert Lewis (4 barriers)

Competition --> masculinity is about competition, makes intimacy hard.




Need to be control --> avoid vulnerability




Homophobia --> undermines male friendships, undermines masculinity --> fear




Lack of skills and positive role models --> no examples of male intimacy




Touch Isolation --> lack of affection/intimacy --> sexualization of the male touch.

Romantic Love

Love has become feminine




Women are emotional labourers --> relationships are women's work




Men are more instrumental --> provider




Romantic love is relatively new --> marriage was for different reasons




Culturally scripted phenomenon




Dating is full of gender expectations




Organized around stereotype

Sex

Sexuality has become masculine:


- pursuit of sexual pleasure for it's own sake


- focus on men's orgasm, not intamcay


- more sexual partners


- interest in experimentation


- separation of love and sex




Intimate strangers --> no connection.