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14 Cards in this Set
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What are we investing when building friendships?
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time, effort, thought and feeling
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T/F: There are no formal ceremonies to recognize friendships or formal standards to guide interactions
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TRUE:
There ARE no formal ceremonies to recognize friendships or formal standards to guide interactions |
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What is emotional closeness?
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becoming familiar and comfortable with another person
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What are two ways to improve emotional closeness?
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- dialogue
- doing (activities) |
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T/F: Women see doing as the main activity that creates closeness?
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FALSE:
Women see DIALOGUE as the main activity that creates closeness? |
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T/F: Men are less likely to be emotionally discolsive
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TRUE:
Men are less likely to be emotionally discolsive |
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What are the five necessary aspects of friendship?
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- willingness to invest
- emotional closeness - acceptance - trust |
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What three aspects influence trust in friendship?
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- individual histories
- family scripts - willingness to take risks |
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List the six stages in the development of friendship...
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1 - role-limiting interaction
>>> meeting someone 2 - friendly relations >>> finding common ground 3 - moving toward friendship >>> move beyond social roles 4 - nascent friendship >>> share feelings, values, etc. 5 - stabilized friendship >>> assumption of continuity 6 - waning friendship >>> one or both parties end relat. |
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What are relationship rules?
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unspoken understandings that regulate how people interact
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What are internal tensions?
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relationship stresses that grow out of people and their interactions
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Name three types of internal tensions?
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- relational dialects
- diverse communication styles - sexual attraction |
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Name three types of external tensions?
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- competing demands (school, other friends, work, etc.)
- personal changes - geographic distance |
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What is the difference between friends of the heart and friends of the road?
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friends of the heart - remain close regardless of distance and circumstances
friends of the road - change as we move along the road of life |
