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58 Cards in this Set

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coming together

initiating stage
where you decide whether or not to begin a relationship
coming together

experimenting
share info to see if they have anything in common
coming together

intensifying
become more exclusive, "we" and "us"
coming together

integrating
share self-symbols, take on partners characteristics, become more alike
coming together

bonding
ceremony that publicly communicates the commitments the partner has made, marriage
falling apart

differentiating
re-assert identity, separate interests, increase in conflict
falling apart

circumscribing
safe communication
falling apart

stagnating
avoid new topics for fear of negative outcome
falling apart

avoiding
avoid contact physically and psychologically
falling apart

terminating
ending the relationship
kinetics
the study of body movement and gesture
kinetics

emblems
gestures that have a direct verbal translation

ex: thumbs up
illustrators
kinetics - nonverbal symbols that adds meaning to verbal messages

ex: fingers to show age
kinetics

regulators
help with conversational interactions

ex: raise hand
kinetics

affect displays
behaviors that show one's emotional state

ex: smile, crying
kinetics

adapters
usually unconscious movements done under times of stress, anxiety, or boredom

ex: tap pencil, twirl hair, shake leg
kinetics

courtship readiness cues
nonverbal cues we do when we are trying to impress the opposite sex

ex: suck in stomach, stand up straight
paralanguage
the use of and characteristics of human voice
proxemics
space
haptics
touch
chromemics
how use of time communicates
chromemics

biological time orientations (circadian rhythms)
when you function best

ex: morning person, night owl
chromemics

punctuality
being on time
chromemics

timing
how we sequence information, or how rapidly we move from one message to another

ex: time to return phone call or email
denotative
official meaning of a word, explicit
connotative
suggested meanings, the implied meaning of the word
language

hesitations
um, er, ah
language

hedges
"i guess..."
language

tag questions
"i'm a good golfer, aren't i?"
language

polite forms
appreciate, please
language

intensifiers
"i like you very, very much"
language

disclaimers
"i may not be an expert in this..."
accusatory language
any wording that implies the other is at fault, responsible, or to blame for a negative occurrence

ex: you make me so mad when you don't put the dishes in the dishwasher
functions of SD

informational
the messages is straightforward and intended to give the receiver certain information the sender thinks is important

ex: email that you won't be in class
functions of SD

expressive/therapeutic
when you disclose to relieve pent up emotions or feelings

ex: got a 4.9 - call parents
functions of SD

impression management
disclosing to create or maintain a certain image that the course/sender wants to have

ex: tell boss certain things at lunch
functions of SD

clarification
when SD is used to help the source understand him/herself better

ex: talking out loud, use friends as "sounding boards"
levels of disclosive messages

opinions
disclosure in which we express our thoughts and views on a subject

ex: democrat vs republican
levels of disclosive messages

expressed feelings
statements of how you feel about something or how you felt about something in the past

ex: i was really sad when i broke up with my high school boyfriend
levels of disclosive messages

shared feelings
state the emotions you are feeling right now about the situation you are in or the person you are with

ex: i feel sad when yo walk by and don't acknowledge
functions of listening

informational
listen to get information from other people
functions of listening

job-related
sometimes our job is to listen

ex: counselors
functions of listening

relational
listening is imperative in relationships, is a reciprocal activity
components of listening

attention
motivation, schemas help us pay attention, women pay more attention
components of listening

reception
hearing aspect of listening
components of listening

perception
how we understand and interpret the messages we have received
problems with relational listening

pseudo-listening
when people appear to be listening, but truly are not
problems with relational listening

information load
humans can effectively process 400-600 words per minute, but the typical speaker talks about 150 words per minute
problems with relational listening

other orientation
when we are listening, we have to pay attention to the other person
problems with relational listening

time consuming
listening takes a lot of time and effort
problems with relational listening

receiver anxiety - situational
associated with listening in specific situations
problems with relational listening

receiver anxiety - trait receiver
continuing apprehension about receiving information
backchanneling
giving verbal cues that indicate active listening
SOLER
squarely, open, lean, eye contact, relax
emotional laden language
words that heighten our emotional responses and disrupt info processing
own it
"i feel..."
name it
sexy, annoyed, bored, jubliant
locate it
"...when i see a sunny day in morgantown."